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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, it just turned 1 year and 9 months. The problem with out relationship is that he doesn't trust me. I don't know why though. But what really is bothering me that he doesn't trust me with my bestfriend. I have never cheated on him with my bestfriend or anyone. The reason why he doesn't trust me with him is because one day my boyfriend made me mad, so I was talking to my bestfriend and just letting my anger out. I caked my boyfriend "a girl that acts like she's pmsing all the time". How does he know this? He logged into my facebook account and read all of my messages. Now he doesn't trust me with my bestfriend, and has forced me to stop talking to him. And I have, for the sake of our relationship.Please help me out, I don't know what I should do.How do I earn his trust back?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 First of you dont need to earn your trust back because you have done nothing wrong, and its not fair on your friend that you are not talking to him anymore, you need to explain this to your boyfriend, tell him you love him and its only him you want to be with but that he cant control who your friends are you have nothing to hide here, but you need to be strong and tell him you can have your friends and him aswell but that you cant chose, if he doesnt trust you he needs to deal with them issues not you, tell him you are not going to chose. Because this is him beginning to control you and soon you wont be able to have any friends and he will start controlling what you do and what you wear stop it now before it goes to far, tell him that you are going to stay friends with your best friend and that he needs to accept that.
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