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female
age
30-35,
*olaBolla
writes:I've known this normally outgoing, confident guy for about 6 months and our relationship kinda goes like this: we ignore eachother and stare when we don't think the other person's looking. Then by chance, one of us will say something and we'll spend hours opening up about really personal things. Then the cycle starts all over again from the akward beginning.He was starting to get over his shyness when suddenly he did a total 180. Now it's back to being WORSE than the beginning. He'll walk up to me and and expect me to carry the ENTIRE conversation. I'm getting really frustrated, because I HAVE tried txts and email but he always responds with short answers so I stopped. We haven't spoken for 2 weeks now.His friend told me he likes me (the guy doesn't know I know and would FREAK if he heard his friend blabbed) but WTF is up with him?!? I'm getting really fed up with this; is there anything I can do or is this something he has to come to terms with himself?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 You guys need to stop doing this dance and someone just needs to ask someone out! You like each other? Well, why not give it a try? Go on a date, make some plans, something! The tension between you guys is ridiculous! YOU can ask him to do something - if he is painfully shy, then help the guy out a little! It's okay to be a little forward and ask if he wants to have lunch. If you like each other, do something about it!
Good luck, sweet thing!
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