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anonymous
writes:I started talking to this girl 3 months ago. We talk almost everyday for hours through text and calling. Gone out on a few dates and have slept together. I'd like to see her more often as we only now see each other only once a week to once every 2 weeks. But she is young (23) and is always hanging with her girlfriends which is fine with me every now and then. I do think she really likes me by the things she says to me, her being jealous of other girls (friends) in my life and introducing me to her family and friends.How can I get her to see me more often and become my girlfriend without seeming needy? Usually a girl will push for this but so far she hasn't and kept it casual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): Maybe if you slipped in little undertones of you wanting a relationship...you know, a comment here and there that will tell her you're interested in taking what you both have to the next level. Women always notice these things because we're intuitive in that way :)You could also be more romantic when you're together. During one of the times you spend time together, take her some place nice and tell her how you feel about her, ask her where she sees this going. I wish you the best of luck :)
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reader, kittykhaos  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 Maybe shes worried if she asks you you might say no because she thinks its just a friends with benefits situation. Just ask her in a straight forward and not in an overbearing OMG I LOVE YOU be mine kind of way and im sure it will be fine :)
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