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*andyCurves
writes:I've just recently realised a guy I've liked for ages is using me.So I've only just learnt that he isnt the guy for me, and that I should ignore him for the best.But why do I feel completely different around him, when he is near me?Its like my brain knows its wrong to be with him but I automatically start to get feeling in my stomach, heart sinks. I stop breathing,start fidgetting ect. WHY DOES MY BODY STILL FANCY HIM, WHEN THE THOUGHT OF HIM MAKES ME SICK?!Help! and how can I tackle this problem, please. Reply to this Question
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (21 August 2010):
CandyCurves is verified as being by the original poster of the question is it lust? I cant belive Im lusting it sounds like something horrible! thank you for your diagnosis, its going to be hard but like you said- its in my power to overcome. Honestly , thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): It is indeed lust and lust can be a very powerfull thing. The best thing to do is STAY AWAY. Believe me if you don't you'll just get sucked back in everytime you see him and it's not healthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010): u hve lust 4 him but not luv.i no how u feel my advice is 2 leave him alone even doe its hard.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Mind over matter. If your mind knows, your body will as well. Remind yourself what he did to you when you're around him and even though you should still be polite, you should also remember why you hate him, why there is no reason for you to like him at all. Your body is under your control.
I hope that helps.
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