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writes:I looked at my bfs texts when he was out of the room and I found one that upset me a bit. Nothing drastic, just a not so nice comment about me. But shall I just get over it or shall I tell him I did it?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 August 2010):
 Depends how not nice it was. I wouldn't tell him you were snooping, as that's generally a worse offense than a not super nice comment. If you can find some way for him to kind of "allow" you to look (like joking around oh hey I'm looking through your phone!) or something, then you can bring it up.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (15 August 2010):
 If the comment was made by him, dump him before he gets away with it and starts to disrespect you more and more. Does he have a real reason to criticize you in any way? Did you ever tread away by doing or saying something inappropriate that he may know about?
If the comment was made by some other person, talk to him about his friends, avoiding to say that you've violated his privacy, no one likes to know there is someone who controls them. Tell him something like "I have this feeling that insert name of the person in question doesn't like me", pay attention to his reaction, if he tries to tell you that you're worried over nothing, well.. you should believe him, because the important is that he is still with you after all those malicious comments.
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