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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok, please help me put my mind at rest, or validate my anxiety! My boyfriend and I are not having sex but we do give each other handjobs. I've heard that it is possible to get pregnant from this if he has cum on his hands etc and I am very neurotic about that kind of thing so we are almost always EXTREMELY careful. However, last month I did him first and he came all over his stomach. He got up and got in the shower, and I later followed him in. He then touched me in the shower, however, we were probably in there for a good 20+ minutes before that happened (it was a hot shower) and I made sure he had cleaned up and everything well before that. I was on my period then, and had been on the pill for 2 months. Later I began to worry that maybe that was risky, and have been paranoid about being pregnant for the last month. Finally, I finished my 21 active pills and I am not getting my period. It's the 3rd day of my placebo pills. Could I be pregnant? I have heard that skipping periods is normal this early on when taking the pill (now my third month) but I am still worried! Further, is this something I need to be so concerned about in the future? Assuming we are careful and not total idiots. I'm sure some of you will laugh considering my age, I know this is silly, but it really does give me a lot of anxiety.thanks.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (13 August 2010):
 What you've described is really unlikely to result in a pregnancy, and further if you're on the pill the chances are pretty much Nil. Get a test though, should put your mind at rest.
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (13 August 2010):
The pill does that but you should still take a ptest when i was on the pill i missed my period for 3months and i was not pregnant but i do have kids use a condom and stop giving hand jobs after a while the relationship will get boring..ps..goodluck!
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