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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:HELP! My boyfriend is making me sexually frustrated!!! I feel as though I am way more into it then him and it causes me to feel as though he is not attracted to me anymore. Were still in university and both living at hime so it makes things harder and its harder for alone time but when i know we will be hanging out together I get excited about the fact that we will have time alone. This is only killed when i try to heat things up only to find him trying to peak around me to watch tv!!! Like really? I feel we never have any foreplay anymore its just straight to the main event and i hate that. He also doenst like kissing, or his neck touched, or dirty talk, or blah blah blah so i dont even know how to go about "seducing" him half the time. So basically nights where im excited with anticipation for sex only end in major frustration that we never even ended up having any and i dont think its because my lack of effort. What can I do or say to him? (ive tried talking to him about it but he gets really deffensive and says Im not initiating it. Like how is me strateling you in my undies not initiating anything?) Anyone have a similar situation and would like to explain how they handle it or hust have advice on what i can do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): This is really a sad situation, because most of the time men are the ones complaining about not "getting" enough. I think you really should try to talk about every aspect of your relationship. Maybe it's not just the sex, maybe there are other issues?
(most) Men aren't really talkers when it's about feelings and stuff, so another thing you can do is just say him what you told in your question. Tell him it makes you frustrated, tell him you want foreplay and so on...
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