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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello,The question that i have is that a girl that i really like has been sending me strange messages. I asked her out on a date and she said yes......then maybe.....then no altogether. She has repeated this cycle for a while now, and has said that she wants to go out with me, but cant, she does but she doesnt. I was just wondering why she would be doing this, and repeatedly "playing" me for a fool. I really like her, and she says she likes me, but i cant keep putting up with all of this. Any advice would be helpful.Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 February 2009):
Girls are a bit useless at this age and think that you will just stick around and she can mess you about. They don't actually think about guys getting hurt because up until this age guys have had no real feelings so they are used to being the ones who get hurt and assume you won't.
Tell her that it's not fair of her to mess you around like this and that if she wants to set up and go on a date then she should call you.
Then cut contact and try and move on. She may be going through something and may be unsure of her feelings but she doesn't have to inflict that stuff on you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): Move on. You need to find someone that won't play with your emotions. She most likely has a lot of problems in her life, and a few emotional ones as well. Find someone else that will convey the same feelings for you.She will learn her lesson about playing around with people's emotions, after she loses someone that she really liked and cared about.So, stop trying to figure her out, and move on with your life to someone that cares about you, and is willing to show you her feelings.You seem like a good guy. Stop letting her make a fool out of you, and move on, so she can be the fool.
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