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*cameronchandler
writes:I broke Up with My girlfriend of 9 months recently and I am so depressed. I didn't feel satisfied in the relationship because it did not feel like it did when we started dating. Now that I broke up with her I am so sad and miss her a lot. I don't understand why I stopped feeling that way but I want to feel that way again and I want to feel that way for her. I love her and all I want to do is be with her but I'm afraid of getting back in the relationship because I fear I'll have to break up with her again and I can't do it. She means the world to me and right now we changed our break up to simply taking a break. I want to know if I spend time away from her will I get that feeling back, or if this feeling comes naturally to everyone. I'm going crazy and I hate myself for not knowing what to do. I really need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): take time to make sure that you arent just feeling this way because the "honeymoon period" is over. alot of couples question their feelings for one another after being together a long time as they become so comfortable around one another and begin to take each other for granted, they miss the new and exciting feeling of a relationship, but if this is the case it isnt a reason to break up with someone, if you love her stay with her, make sure you both make each other feel loved and dont dwell on the excitment being over, look forward to all the new experiences you will have togther. hope all goes well. beth x
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