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writes:Hello all,My story is quite long but i would love someone would give an advice. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he is a very good guy. My problem with him is that he is very unemotional. He is always telling me that I look very cute, he holds the doors for me, the is very gentelman with me. I know that he has stop seeing his friends because as he have a very tight schedule we decide to see eachothers 3 times a week, now he only see his friends once a month or something like that, and sometimes I am with him also. He has take me to his parents house to meet his family. But he never talks about his feelings for me, unless I get upset and sad because as he does that I think he doesn't care about me.I know I am his first relationship, he has never been with someone as serious and as long time as he has been with me, he has also said that I am perfect for him, that he likes everything about me, and that he has never like someone as he likes me. I am 27 he is 29, he also have a very high sex drive, which I have it also, we have great sex, but I am worry if he only likes me because the sex is good, or that he just want me for sex, I have confront him about this and he has always said no. I dont know what to think sometimes if I analize it I think that yes he does have a lot of feelings for me, considering all the things he have done, but other times I think, that if you love someone, you just said it. I honestly really love him, I do understand that I am a very emotional person, and I don't have family, so that's why I may be more needy of knowing that I am important for him. I have never been a needy person, I have a great career, I am very atractive and I have a very good salary. If someone can give me some advice I will appretiate it.
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reader, Ed1337  +, writes (2 February 2009):
 If your his first proper relationship at 29, then he is bound to have some emotional problems, he probably isn't used to telling someone that he loves them and it may feel weird to him. Try not to judge him too much, he sounds like a good guy.
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