I've cheated on her 3 times, now she said she needs space! How can I rectify this problem?

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend says she needs space from me, because I cheated numerous times and she took me back every time (cheated about 3x). The last time I got caught she saw me in pictures with the other lady, she forgave me and gave me another chance and about a year after she says she can't get over it cause I took pictures with the lady, not pofessional picture but polaroid. I proposed to her after she said she need space, she says she can't do it right now, I asked her was she telling me no and she said she's not saying no just not right now. Every time we talk about it she always says I can continue to do what I was doing meaning continue dating. What may be the out come to this problem I'm having? Is she done with me or does she really need space? she said she needs space 1-10-09 and todays date is 2-17-09. We also have a son together who is 3 years old. We've been together for 5 years. Please respond

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