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writes:im 17 havnt had a boyfreind since i was 14.im attractive even if i do say so myself but the thing is men or boys dont seem to be intrested thy treat me like one of the boys we have a laugh ect.im allways myself around boys/men..bubbley,giggley,fun to be around,good listener.They just dont want to know?it never used to bother me but it is now as all the ugly girls are geting boyfreinds and im stuck on the shelf, they allways give me false impressions aswell..like last nite i walked past this guy and i heard him say she's fit as!he kept staring at me but its like theyr scared him gna bite their heads of or somthin??help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks that exellent advice!! xx
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 No, they are not afraid you bite. They are afraid you are going to turn them down and humiliate them.
OR they might not even realize that you are available. Typically, the confident women are already spoken for. That is why they are confident, they got a guy are happy with him so they don't need to play the dating game with the men around them and don't. No point in asking them out because they will just nicely turn you down and that is even worse then being humiliated. Can't say a girl happy with a guy is a lesbian after all.
The dating game has complex rules. Following them correctly requires knowing exactly what to do and what point. Of course, you could just ignore them. No law that says YOU can't make the first move.
Scary? Well, at least now you understand how the guys that don't approach you feel.
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