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writes:I have been with my current girlfriend for about 18 months now. I am at uni, a mature student, she has a young 18 year old daughter with a young baby son of 8 months who lives away from her mother. My girlfriend doesn't seem interested in sex any more and when I mentioned it to her she has explained that it is because she is concerned about her daughter that lives away and her baby, yet as I suggested to her, not interested in me any more? We used to have sex at least once a fortnight, now it's got down to maybe once a month, but since Christmas we have had sex just once. Is it me, or do I suspect that something is wrong in our relationship?
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reader, pastfirst  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 You seem to have a communication problem.
Sex once a month is almost nothing at all, especially as you're not satisfied.
Sex is an important aspect of a relationship. Discuss it with her. If there is a problem, you should know what it is. ("Her daughter" is an unlikely excuse).
If she won't talk about it, think about moving on. She's not being fair to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): A ton of things can affect a woman's libido! And if she's in her 40's, hormonal levels could be out of whack. Have you ever asked her to go to a doctor for a good medical. Ask her to help herself and this relationship, by trying to figure out what is going on. Also, check out the below link.
http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/why-women-lose-interest-in-sex
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (1 February 2009):
 There is something else wrong in your relationship. I cannot say what, but there is.
It's normal for her to be concerned about her daughter, but that should have no effect on the two of your sex lives.
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