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30-35,
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writes:So this is a really weird question, and I don't know what's wrong with me. I have been this way since day one of our relationship. Because of schedules and strict parents I rarely see my girlfriend. But now it seems that when I do have a chance to see her I don't want to (but if I do end up going I realize how dumb it was to think that because I have a great time). So I find myself avoiding spending time with her. But I truly love her, I really do, and would never want to separate, I love being around her and everything. I just want to know why I'm like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, ellababesx  +, writes (1 February 2009):
 This is pretty weird. Cos I felt EXACTLY the same when I was with my boyfriend. I couldn't really describe why I felt like this, I could only describe what I felt before I was seeing him.I think that you may be abit worried/nervous/anxouis around seeing her, but once you and her have met up, you feel more comfortable with her and feel you can have a good time.If these suggestions haven't met with your feelings then I think that you should continue meeting up with your girlfriend no matter how much you want to avoid doing so. You need to remove this feeling that you have at the moment, you need to feel more comfortable to meet with your girlfriend and know her well enough to know that you will have a good time.You'll soon grow out of this! Just invite her round yours or do something that is new to you two!xx
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