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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can fighting/arguments be good for a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi guys. I just have a general relationships question that I've been pondering for quite some time now and I'd really like some outside oppinions. Okay so, do you guys find that fighting/arguments are helpful or detrimental to a relationship? Is it ...

If a guy asks for a hug does this mean he is interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - There is a man at work (different departments, we don't see each other every day) that I have been friendly with the past few months and I believe there has been a spark going on (for sure it has for me, not completely sure about his side). ...

I got so drunk and did something real stupid! Help

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i am so overwhelmed with embarrassment right now. in my local bar i pulled a guy into the packed bathroom and tried to get him into the cubical.. i was so so so so so so so drunk and its completely out of charecter but it has really effected my ...

I'm in the Navy , she wants to take it slowly, is this a real relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Here is my situation, I am currently in the Navy, which i dont think that this is a problem. But within the last 6 months i have started talking to a girl that i dated in high school, i was very much in love with her at the time. Over the time we ...

I really like this guy, he's a Jehovahs Witness I'm not, will there be any problems?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - There is this guy i like at collage, and i have a sneaking suspicion that he likes me too (have been shamelessly flirting with him lol). He is a Johavas Witness and im not. I was wondering about the 'rules' regarding JW's and non JW's dating. As i ...

We fell in love 5 months ago, now he wants to end it, why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - hi i met a wonderful man 5 months ago and the way we met we both believed it was fate. we clicked straight awy and fell in love he was always making me feel spcial telling me how much he loved me that i was the best ting to ever happen to him. we ...

She won't speak to me now and I am confused and lonely. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow ...

Will I ever win my ex bf back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex around 2 years ago this may. However we still keep in close contact and see each other every day. I have been through periods where I've had another love interest and felt I was over him, but at the end I've always gone back to ...

He's being used by his gf and I like him...but now he's ignoring me on MSN.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I really like this guy. But today he's been blanking me on msn, and i don't know why. I told my friend that i liked him and im worried that she's told him. How do i ask him if he told? And how do i make ammends to the person i like? Who, by...

Is he hitting on my best friends...to annoy me because he really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - guys-this boy used to fancy me scince like the first day of secondary school[we are in year 7].when i rejected him,he moved to my best friend and now i have realised a pattern --which ever one of my friends i spend the most time with a week,he will ...

Broke up with my clingy bf 3 weeks ago and he won't leave me alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i broke up with this guy about 3 weeks ago and he wont leave me alone recently i have got together with somebody else but he gets really annoyed when my ex rings me. he calls me about 50 times in an hour, this was one of the reasons why i broke up...

Met a wonderful girl! 3 months in, we are both virgins. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello! Last September I met a girl and we have been going out for 3 months now, she is everything I have ever wanted. We have been on a few dates and have hugged/kissed and that's about it. I am 21 and she is too, I would just like to know where I ...

He thinks the relationship is ok, but I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend Thinks That The Relationship Is Working,, But The Problem Is That I Dont. Please Help Me! I Told Him Thats It Hard To Speak Now and and It May Not Work But I Dno...And He Has Not Replied. What Can I Do Because I Dont Wna Hurt Him! ...

Does an age difference cause arguments?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - My last two girlfriends were both 18 when we started going out; I was 27. Why do I seem to always want to go for younger women, around that age? Does age difference cause arguments as well?...

Did she make the right choice taking him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Is there any truth in the saying eopards don't change their sports, once a cheat always a cheat? I now talk to my ex on MSN and she told me now she's back with this guy who she was with before me. I asked her why he hurt her in the first pl...

We have different ideas on how a long distance relationship should work. Please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for the past year, I'v been with my partner for 2 years and just recently things have gotten very weird ... He seems very distant! Doesn't want to visit due too lack of funds, i have no free time to ...

He is sending me mixed signals. Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I like this guy well his not really just a guy his one of my close friends. i've liked him for ages and he knows it as well it just i've asked him out before and he said no. since then we have had phone sex, weve gone swimming together and his he ...

I'm a single mom, and I need help getting over my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I want to move on helllllllllp! I am a single mum of three girls. A set of young twins and a four year old with special needs. I am finding it tough caring for the children and am still trying to move on from my ex. We split up last year as he ...

I'm in a relationship with a man, but get turned on with lesbian porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am having a bit of an issue at the moment. I am in a relationship with a man but i seem to be really turned on by lesbian porn. I love it. When my boyfriend goes down on me I sometimes think he is a woman.. does this make me a lesbian. I don't ...

My older bloke will not meet my parents and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for nearly 10 monthes. He is 10 years older than me im 19 he is 29. The problem is he doesnt want to meet or talk 2 my parents andi was windering why? We are really good together and he looks after me ...

I'm a virgin. How can I get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I really need help. I've never had sex, I'm at the age of 23, and never really had a bf. Well, I kind of did, but it lasted only 2 weeks and he split with me. He was 34 and had loads of relationships. I never told him that I was a virgin.(I wish i ...

He wanted Phone Sex, I rejected the idea, now he doesn't answer his calls. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy very on and off for a couple of months. He is younger than me, but really nice, we get on really well but he has never wanted a relationship and has always been really bad with cancelling / answering texts etc. So clearly ...

Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her ...

Two girls are after me but I only like one

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - i'm 11 and their is this girl at school and she's liked me for about 6 months and i've had a few feelings for her but then there's this other girl who likes me and she's after me and now shes going through puberty she told me and she gets really ...

I do stupid things, don't want to loose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - So me an my boyfirend been togather for 4 monthes now we moved in togather like rigth away an it was ture love at first sigth every one said i was crazy my firends was like you don't even know this guy an i'm always the one to think things out but ...

How can I prove to her that I won't pressure her for sex like her ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Well theres a girl that i think im starting to fall for. Well she a few weeks ago got out of a relationship because he kept pressuring her to have sex and thats all he talked about all the time. and she has been hitting on me. Asking a lot of ...

Two people in relationships kiss, touch another person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship that is bad-the past month and a half we have almost quit it about seven times. The other day, I went to watch a football game at my friend's house and we all ended up drinking too much and a guy kissed/touched me, as I did ...

I'm confuesed and don't want to make the first move.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - i've known this guy for over a year and although he's lived a long way away from me for most of this, we've kept very much in touch as friends and have always had a fairly flirty relationship. now he is living much closer to me and i've gone to stay ...

Feels like a fairy tale when we're together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship of seven years(which was failing)we were stuck in a rut, relationship was in a stand still.I was working and met this man(ten yrs older than myself)I was immediatly drawn to him! well a month later he asked me out for drinks, ...

I love my married soulmate, but he is married and not to me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Well....I met my soulmate backin 1994. He was determined to get my attention, and when he did, we were instantly in love. We were both young, I was 17 and he was 19. Of course, at the time, I had no clue he was my soulmate, but did know that I ...

This guy dumps me out of the blue and then runs after me to say "hi" Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Well it's been a month nearly since me and my bf of 10 months split. I'm 20, he's 22, and his reasons for ending it were contradictory to say the least. He told me his feelings for me hadn't changed but that he wasn't ready for a relationship this ...