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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I have a chance with him? I'm scared of getting hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...

If you have a relationship with an former escort and due to financial issues she returns should you still see her whilst she is active or wait until she stops for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

9 January 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 34year old man, who met a 24 year old girl who told me she was a former escort. When we first met I knew her through a mutual friend we got on immmediately and enjoyed being in each others company. She when away for a year and t...

One month of bliss to one month of destruction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Hey everyone...need some help with this... I recently met someone about 2 months ago, we quickly started dating, things were wonderful. We saw each other almost everyday, exchanged emails all day at work, he sent me flowers, said I love you, met ...

I'm a young girl attracted to older men

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Okay, I am a 17 year old girl. Since I was about 14 I have only been attracted to older men. And I mean older. 40-60's. I don't find a single guy around my age attractive at all and I haven't in forever. At school the only crushes I have developed ...

In love with my partner but equivalently attracted by an old friend what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - i am 16 and im with my first serious bf, and have been for 5 months... i love him and he makes me happy. when we first started dating it was all flames and now its more ashes. Everytime i want to mention this to him i get scared and just keep it to ...

Help me understand her..Does she really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

9 January 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend we've been going out for a month now. She broke up with her x-boyfriend a month ago. And soon after the two of us got drunk and ended up in bed together. Nothing happened that night, after I started kissing her, she stopped ...

Can I find love without sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I desperately want love (no sex, just love)but, no one I've met wants one without the other. Everyone around me says I'm foolish for holding back and expecting someone to stay. So, please tell me, Am I a princess whose just kissed the wrong frogs ...

Part of me thinks my boyfriend is right but on the other hand he has never went the extra mile to get my parents to like him. I'm in the middle of their differences!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time, but my parents do not like him. I come from a very conservative Argentinian family and they always see him as not being good enough for me. He has made wrong choices before regarding drugs. I ...

He's given me his number and shown interest, how do I ask him out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Hey Aunts Ok, theres this guy whos building my next door neighbours kitchen who is amazingly cute. I asked him for his number yesterday found out hes 19 and he stayed behind for an hour after work talking to me today and yesterday. I wan...

I like my boyfriend, but my ex is on the scene again, confusing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I am going out with someone who seems really into me, he calls me all the time and always wants to be with me. But recently my ex-boyfriend has started calling me and texting me, also i like another lad but i like him more than i like my boyfriend i ...

Any ideas from the girls on sexy underwear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - hi all. i am 19 and have a healthy sex life with my bf however our anniversary is coming up and we have decided 2 wait until then 2 make it extra special, weve rented a hotel room. he wants me 2 wear a corset style seductive outfit which im all up ...

My boyfriends family are trying to turn him against me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - the man that i have been dating for 3 years allows his son-in-law to control his life. his son-in-law does not like me because i threathen his inhertience from this man. none of his family wants him to date me. they act like i am bad news but i ...

I'm in love with my best friend and we've fooled around, but he's taken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I'm so confused, I completely, utterly and madly love my best friend. I've known him for 8 years but we've only been living in the same town for two months of those 8 years, he has also had girlfriends for that time. We have often been intimate, y...

My boyfriend tells me other girls were better than me, how do I cope with the criticism?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - i am living with my boyfriend and have been for about 6 months. i love him to bits but he keeps on criticising me. he has said that 3 girls he has previously slept with were better than me because they were virgins and that i've had sex with too ...

Never had a boyfriend, and unsure if my friend likes me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Ok does one of my mates like me? I've never had a bf before so don't know what the signs are. In one way i think he does and another way i think its just the way he is. Its just i haven't knwon him long and i can't stop thinking about him. He seems ...

This love rat is toying with 2 of my friends, do I tell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - this may be a long one. but to give some history before i ask the question it is a friend issue. my ex best friend went out with this guy and got hurt by him although she did cheat. now this same guy is going out with my current best friend, now the ...

Are we just in simple rut, or is it something deeper than that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - So last weekend my boyfriend (of a year) and I had a talk. His parents are seperating and he was re-evaluating our relationship, saying that he just doesn't want to end up like them. He says he's worried because we dont seem to have as much fun...

I miss our relationship I want it back but does he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I had this boyfriend that I went out for a period of just over 6 months that went on and off. Ive allways wanted it to stay on forever.But I dont think that he will ever love me again or still has any feelings for me. Me and my exboyfriend brok...

My ex is making my life a misery, he scares and intimidates me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - My ex scares me. He seems to think he can do and say whatever he feels and that it is perfectly OK to change his mind at the drop of a hat. Last year he dumped his new girlfriend for a renewed chance with me and our son. Promised me the ...

We've moved in together and seem to be stuck in a rut

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am with this guy for over 2 years and we are living together for the last 4 months. Since we moved in together we have been fighting alot and when were not fighting were just plodding along. We never seem to go out anymore, the romance seems ...

My boyfriend's ex is a real nuisance in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Okay i've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months, and everything is fine with us. But, his ex whom he has a child with has always been nagging him, calling him all the time for the most retarded reasons. it is ovious that she just wants to talk ...

Should I stick by my Boyfriend, after his Behaviour.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - I was at a party with my boyfriend. He got drunk and then told me to 'shut up' when i was talking to him! I was shocked and horrified. His best friend heard him and told him to apologise to me. I felt really hurt that my boyfriend would do such a ...

How can we get over this unlucky moment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Although i see again the man i used to date last year the relationship between us isn't perfect. Before two months we had a serious disagreement and it was dubious if we'll see each other again. It seems that we have got over this problem but i ...

We seem perfect for each other, but how should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Am I looking for love of just desperate for it? I met this guy about two months ago and he is moving extremely slow. He has not completely broken ties with his old relationship, so I have not put up any pressure. However, we are both single ...

Should I tell her my feelings or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I've known this girl since the start of high school, so for about 5 years now, we were once close then slowly drifted apart, but just recently are getting close again. I have fallen madly in love with her and I can't stop thinking about h...

I cant figure him out, I'm getting mixed messages, is it worth it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - First, I apologize for the length of this, I've never written anything like this before and felt knowing the details would help understand why i need advise - thanks in advance! I'm a 48 yr old woman who had stopped dating for several years - raised...

Any ideas as to where we can go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

9 January 2008 (M) - Where's a good place to take a girl out on a date? I'm going to ask this girl on a date, but I'm not sure where to, I don'tr eally want to goto the movies, I hate going, it's the only place I can think of though. We both drink, so I would ask ...

How important is attraction in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

9 January 2008 (F) - Me and my fiancé broke up about 3 months ago. I still miss him and love him and am holding on to some sort of hope that we will be together in the future. However there is a new guy I have been talking to quite a bit lately.he is such a sweet and ...