Feels like a fairy tale when we're together.

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship of seven years(which was failing)we were stuck in a rut, relationship was in a stand still.I was working and met this man(ten yrs older than myself)I was immediatly drawn to him! well a month later he asked me out for drinks, I said yes and then began to cry I knew I had to say goodby to a man ive known for seven years, so I did, and continued dating this older guy, who I worked with fulltime. Boy it was fun!!!!And I was falling hard,claims he was too! He told me he loves me early on.But something wasnt adding up, I did my homework and low and behold he was married and living with his wife! This went against all I believe, but I couldnt drag myself away, This man treats me soooo good, I mean hes wonderfull when were together, feels like a fairy tale. Well he swears that he is leaving the wife as soon as the youngest kid is off in college, he states he has been "exsisting" in life instead of living, but needs to finish his job as a father, and dont wanna walk away before the last child leaves. One night my cell phone rang and it was the wife!! Well I yelled at him! and called her back, she was sooo nice she just asked if ive seen him she needed to speak with him, so I told her he was on his way home and then asked if she was ok? she stated yes and asked if I was okay!!! she asked me (shes not from this country originally)if I was in love with her husband I said yes and she said I thought so you guys talk everyday(keep in mind she pays the cell phone bill with his money and he did not go out of his way to hide my number)I told her that I was lied to at first about his marraige, I asked her five times if she and him lived as husband and wife, she stated I dont love him im here for the kids. she also said hes a liar and you can have him. I asked her if she was just saying this cause she was bitter, she said no I havent loved him in a long time, you can keep him!This man has been living his life for the last ten years as a single man, just not flaunting it in front of his family. He is away at the army right now and ive been completly "faithful" hes due back in may. we write to eachother on the computer and write letters he always talks of our future. Im so in love, but the question if he will leave when his youngest goes to college boggles my mind. Is it possible hes telling the truth? weve been together year and half now.I hope I dont wake up one day look in the mirror and be old and alone because hes been stringing me along. At times im so confused, anyone evr in this situation? Or hear of one working out? please help,,,, sorry this was so long thanks again.

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