A
female
age
30-35,
*mmary
writes:I like this guy well his not really just a guy his one of my close friends. i've liked him for ages and he knows it as well it just i've asked him out before and he said no. since then we have had phone sex, weve gone swimming together and his he has flirted with me loads. he recently told my friends that he was going to ask me out on saturday, it's now monday and he hasn't asked me. he is still flirty with me and we have had phone sex a few more times since saturday, it's not like he hasn't had any opportunities his had loads, anything we do like if were on the phone or out with friends we act like were a couple. if he doesn't like me in that way why does he act like were going out and be all flirty with me. i need help i am soo convused and so are all my friends. what should i do? please help xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Some lads just go in for the cheap thrills.It does not mean that they love you.They could be just playing with you .
Love is different, he shows his care and concern for you .
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reader, jezz +, writes (28 January 2008):
 in my experience lads ARE very confusing. i have been in exactly the same situation as you. The trick is to find out whats really going on is to play him at his own game. pretend your moving on, flirt with other lads and you can tell whether he gets jealous or not. it works!
With lads its all about male pride and if they think something or someone is going to get in the way of there reputation they will be all strange with you. show him your not bothered he will soon realise that he needs to explain his feelings to you!
hope this helps hun xx
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