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Fallen for my friend and afraid to tell her

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Question - (28 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *ranscowboy writes:

Ok, i will try to make this short. I have a friend who i talk to everyday, she shares her feelings with me. She has this big crush on another person and tells me all bout it. How happy she is and stuff like that. The other person is messing with her mind. Sending her emails then ignoring her for weeks at a time. It really makes me mad. Well the problem is i have fallen for my friend, and im afraid if i tell her it will mess up our friendship. I need help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008):

Just be honest and tell her out straight how you feel!!!

My friend told me he liked me a few years ago after a nite out, and he said he didn't want anything to happen with us that would ruin our friendship in the future. So we got together for a few weeks but it didn't feel right so we both agreed to going back to been friends and we're still the best of friends to this day nearly 15 years later!!!

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A female reader, Lila United States +, writes (28 January 2008):

Lila agony auntTell her the worse that can happen is an awkwardness of about 2 weeks. I told one of my friends I loved him and he said "ah that's sweat" but I still felt better that the truth was known and that he wasn't going to love me. Life is nothing without risk.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (28 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIt is like looking after a plant. You need to be patient and wait till it will bear fruits.Her attentions is on her crush .She cannot see you for now. You just have to bid your time.

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