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writes:i met a lady in september 07, in two weeks she was wanting to get married, took her mom and daughter dress shopping, told my mom we were getting married , set the date and everything,we spent every day of the next 3 months together,I wanted to slow it down ,but she would act like it was upsetting her or hurting her feelings,,,so i would just let it go,,she was continually telling me about her past relationships,everyday she would talk about them,one night at 11:30 an ex text her,wanted her to meet him,I was out of town,she said she didn't go,then 2 weeks later he called her at 11:30 while we were in bed,i asked if she wanted to talk to him she said no,so i called him back to see what he wanted,told him i was her fiance,she got upset,then i got mad,,,threw her clothes at her and told her to get out, but instead we talked about what had happened, and i promised her i would never get mad like that again,,3 weeks later she broke off our relationship, said she didn't know what she wanted,that was on dec 13,07. on dec 22 she was at his house,said he was drunk and needed a ride home,she spent the night with him, said she slept on the couch because she had to take him back to his truck the next morning,,,anyway, i did'nt throw any sort of hissy fit I let it go,,,about 2 weeks ago she said i was the best thing that ever happened to her and wanted to spend intimate time with me,as long as i was not seeing someone else,now she wont even speak to me.what do i do?
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Sounds like she's having second thoughts about being married. I think you should try to talk to her and ask her why she's acting like this. Just get to the bottom of the matter and go from there.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (28 January 2008):
 Let her go. She's obviously not being honest with you and you want it to work out so much that your willing to believe anything she tells you. Think about it, her "ex" was drunk so she had to take him home? That means they were out together. Then she spent the night with him and slept on the couch and NOTHING happened right? She is totally playing you. Seems to me like she's had her ex on the side and decided to give it another go with him, leaving you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out. You deserve better and time will mend your wounds. If you allow her to keep you dangling then that's exactly how your heart is going to feel, like it's dangling by a string that could break at any time. Start your healing process now by closing this chapter in your life and start a new one. Good luck and God bless!
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reader, Trinnity08  +, writes (28 January 2008):
 To be honest i dont think she knows wha she wants , and maybe you two being apart is not such a bad ideal , if she can act like this now , think how ur married may have been , if your still stuck on persuing this lady give her some time she may come around and then you can discusse ur problems , just dont be played xx take care
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