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Archived questions from: 16 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How should I react to my girlfriends actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - hey everyone. Ive been with this girl for about a month now, and we are each others' first relationship. A friend hooked us up after she found out we had been liking each other for about 3 months. We are the same age We REALLY like each other, and ...

Can getting a girlfriend make you bad at sports?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - I was wondering if it is true that sometimes when people get a girlfriend they start to get worse at sports? I was wondering because I really like this girl, but I'm not sure if I should ask her out because I've always heard that girl friends make ...

He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five ...

I'm having no luck with guys, should I give this guy who comes into my workplace my number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hey guys. I just have a quick question. I havent had a boyfriend in over a year and i havent been asked for my number from any guy in that space of time either. I think my probalem is that i feel kind of lonely and i just would love to meet a really ...

I've liked him for 11 months. Do I tell him or forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid. i have the biggest crush on my best guy friend. well, im not sure if its a crush. im 15 going on 16. and i've liked him for 11 months! He's a really flirty guy and i'm too scared to tell him. Firstly, we used to be extremely close, b...

How do I ask this girl out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - This is my issue: When I go to the gym, I run across this girl whom I find attractive. She looks me in the eyes really strongly (or at least thats the impression I have) and I know I'm a decent looking dude, so I don't think its in my im...

Does this sound like love????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hey! So I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 6 months. I know we're in love, but I just want some outside advice because I don't really have any other relationships to compare it to. We tell each other "I love you" about 20 ti...

How do I get myself a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - Hi, i have a question. How to get a good girlfriend. I am 30 years old from India and now want to settle my life. Actually my problem is that i am not a romantic type person. Therefore, Please suggest me some good ideas. I want a true girlfrie...

Should we be communicating daily in order to stay in sync or is this not a big deal? J

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and I am begining to worry about our lack of communication. We use to talk everyday but now we rarely talk on the phone. We don't live together and our schedules don't always cordinate but we don't ...

My friend just told me his loves me, should I reciprocate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - A coursemate of mine who has been a close friend for sometime now, just told me he is in love with me. Am so confused that i dont know what to tell him.Should i accept his proposal or not?...

Is he too young for me? Will he let me down too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - A friend I've had for 5 months has told me he likes me. We kissed the other night and I really like him - I got that lovely crazy lustful feeling :o) The only problem is, my last ex (who I lived with) was a few years younger than me. He turned o...

Been single a while, advice on dating this guy please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I've been out of the dating scene a while, I work at a pub and have developed a friendship with one of the locals who is a regular (same age as me). We've been very chatty and friendly for about 5 months, we swapped numbers a while back and h...

I want to ask this girl at work out, but we've never talked, how do I approach her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - How do you go about asking someone out you like but have never really talked to before? Im a kind of shy/quiet guy and theres a girl a really like that i work with, only problem is she works on a different department and iv never had the chance to ...

My boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's and it upsets me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I need help!!! my boyfriend is best friends with both of his ex's (yes there are two and they both have boyfriends) and it really upsets me. I don't want to be the type of girlfriend that doesn't allow him to be friends with whoever he wants but ...

Pregnant , with my bf but why do I keep thinking of an ex bf who I was with for 9 years.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hi I am in my mid twenty's I have been with my b/f for little over a year and I am pregnant with his child but I still think a Lot about my ex which I was with for 9 years is it love or not? ...

Whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. What's wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I've found that whenever I kiss a guy, it seems like a chore and I don't get any pleasure from it. I went on a second date with a guy I am attracted to, and when we were kissing, I didn't feel turned on or feel any pleasure. Is this normal? Is ...

BF of a year doesn't love me, wants to be with me yet fantasizes about other girls and idealises his ex...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - My problem is this. I'n my last year of uni, as is my bf who I have been with for just over a year, albeit with a couple of breakups, namely a couple of months ago when he split up with me after months of saying (supposedly not to get with other ...

I am afraid of being alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - I think this is a very normal problem but I am trying to work at keeping it all in perspective and any advice would be gratefully received! I am a 33 year old man who has been married (for 7 years) from age 21 and that finished 5 years back and then...

Dazed and confused--I feel sometimes not matter what I do for this man its never good enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I and my ex recently got back together and I feel like I am alive again. I’ve smiled more and every morning was like a brand new day because of the happiness he put back into my life. Last night however was a nightmare with him. A good friend of ...

My girlfriend is moving in with a guy (and 5 others) that she has kissed, in the past. I am concerned! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - hi, my girlfriend of a year has recently moved to uni after a few months she kissed a guy who lives next to her in her halls, i let this go and forgave her but it happened again however she said she pulled away that time but i broke of our rel...

He cheated on me and I can't forget it it! Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5267 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hey, My boyfriend and I are both happy and have been going out for 7months. Everything has been perfect for one thing.. Earlier in our relationship, when things were still a bit awkward, he went out one night, got drunk and kissed another girl. He ...

Worried my gf's good looks will go down the tolilet! How do I tell her this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing my girlfriend now for about 9 months, when we 1st met, she blew me away- nice personality, beautiful looks, a great smile and a lovely body. She has just started using the pill, I said I would use condoms but she wants to use ...

I want him back but not sure how to get him back,..any help is appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Recently ive been thinking of my ex bf ive not spoke or seen him since we split at the start of december last year,we where not together that long and he called it off,he was also my first bf.The thing is its getting worse like thinking of him more ...

Am I just a friend with benefits??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this girl for the past 3 months. We have had sex numerous times, she stays over my house, we go to dinners, movies etc Yet she says she only sees me as a friend. I really like her, what should I do?...

My sister is ill and I help her a lot...but now, I'm terrified of losing my bf, due to all this baggage!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 31yr old with a younger sis aged 29 who is HIV positive. She has 3 kids and i have none and we dont have parents.meaning I parent everyone. I am in a very seriuos and committed relationship. My problem is I have become so reliant on him ...

Is it fair to make her choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - Hi! I have a girlfriend of 2 years and I deeply love her. Recently we had a bit of a relationship breakdown and she went to a male friend of her and he used her weakness and kissed her and tried to have sex with her but she stopped him. Things are ...

She doesn't want a relationship right now and just wants to be free. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. we have had hard times but great times like any relationship. all the sudden on new years eve she tells me that she doesnt want a relationship right now and just wants to be free to do what she ...

I told him I slept with a guy while we were on a break and he flipped! He doesn't want me now! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs on and off. I love him with all my heart and he means alot to me. The longest we've ever been apart has been one month, within that month I was dating another guy. The reason for our b...

How can you tell if your co-worker is interested without making an arse of yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - I have a coworker and were good friends. we've gone out couple of times alone, and also with group of people. I buy little gifts for her time to time and recently have drawn her a painting. She seems to enjoy the gifts and is thankful but other ...

Can I get help with this poem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is always writing me poems telling me how much he loves me, and i thought that for valentines day i could write him a poem for a change,but im not to good at it,the poem i wrote below is what ive wrote and i wondered if you could help ...

Part 2--Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - This is an addition to the question I posted yesterday, which can be seen here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/could-a-guy-have-sex-with-someone-and.html The girl that slept with my friend's boyfriend called me today and she said that sin...

He doesn't trust me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend and i been together for a year and a half he cheated on me a couple of times when i was pregnant with his child and he lied we broke up then we got back together 3 months ago i told him i was gonna go somewhere but i didn't i came to my ...

What should we do, as my date's live-in partner is very violent and she feels threatened to stay with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (M) - hi i have recently started seeing a girl who has a baby, but still lives with the babies dad,even though they are not going out anmore he wont leave (her house) and is controlling and very possessive of her, she told me today that she is afraid that ...

Will my jealousy ruin my relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I am an extremely jealous person, I'll admit it. I have been dating my boyfriend for a while now and I got a "great" idea to get him a dog for Valentine's Day. Now, he is already talking about all of the time he's going to spend with it and I'm ...

So should I trust what he is saying..or just blow him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - There is this guy that I dated for a little bit a couple of months ago......But, after we broke up we quit talking to one another.....But after he read my message that I sent him before we got together and it was just saying how much love and life I ...

I work at a school and am having feelings for this young male student. Advice is needed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

16 January 2008 (F) - I work in a school, and have been working with a 18 year old male student for a number of years. About five months ago I realized that I have strong feelings for him and what an awesome person he is. I have never told him how I felt (its my ...