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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I really need help. I've never had sex, I'm at the age of 23, and never really had a bf. Well, I kind of did, but it lasted only 2 weeks and he split with me. He was 34 and had loads of relationships. I never told him that I was a virgin.(I wish i had) Things went down hill, when I would not sleep with him. I once kindly took his mate somewhere as a favour. Nothing happened by the way.Anyway, what I'm asking is... am I doing anything wrong by not having really had a bf at my age? I think I'm ugly, but my mates say I'm not. Is there any advice you can give, to help me to get a boyfriend? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (28 January 2008):
 You need to learn to love yourself! Figure out what it is you like about yourself and let your confidence grow from that. Don't worry about the features you cringe about... For instance, say you had a big nose, look at the face around it and how a large nose fits in quite well!
Our quirks are part of what makes us individual and therefore uniquely lovable by our ideal partner!
Being fun and pleasant company will get you noticed. If the men you meet don't seem to like you, change scene and find men who might. As for being a virgin, men like the rare opportunity of being the first! So be proud and honest with your next boyfriend. If you don't feel ready for sex because you want to be sure your first time is really special, he needs to know and should respect you for your decision.
In he meantime, learning to appreciate yourself and exploring your body to learn what makes you feel good will prepare you with enough confidence to enjoy that first time.
If I can be of farther help, get in touch!
Good luck!
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female
reader, speedcat  +, writes (28 January 2008):
Just be yourself, you cant or should i say shouldnt change yourself for anyone. Sounds like the relationship you were in might have failed for other reasons,, and besides do you wanna lose your virginity to someone who leaves you at the drop of a dime? Dont be hard on yourself, dont be afraid to be friendly,social, and outgoing if you do these things men will come along trust me,,,dont rush theyll come they always do!!!
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male
reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (28 January 2008):
 the key, is confidence. It's sexier than any supermodel.
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