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Archived questions from: 17 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I want this girl to date me! how do I ask her though?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - hiii my name is Tony and i need some help pleas, i am 17 years old from UK when i look at this web and i think that you are the one to help me :D This is the problem, i had fancy a girl for about half a year now and i plan to ask her out on Valen...

Which of these two guys should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I have a friend, Jack, who i have known since freshman year of high school. We were really close and best friends even after he had to move before our senior year. Not long before he moved, he told me that he was in love with me but i was scared to ...

Complicated story - where do I go from here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - hi there. i have a problem. well you see, i met this girl in college last september and at the time she was with someone. we got on very well, too well. its a year and a half on and we're preparing to go uni in spetember. shes not with him anymore. ...

Should I butt out and let them get on with it? I don't want to lose a good friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Over the weekend me and my friends went out to a party and met these boys from Long Island. Us girls live in Connecticut which is about a hour and a half drive from where the boys live. We all had a fun time and eventually me, my sister, and my ...

I'm tired of waiting for her. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - i have been very close friends with a girl for about 8 months now. she has always flirted and i thought nothing of it until last month whilst over her house we kissed, an achievement for someone of her poor confidence. the next time i went to hers ...

Am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - hi all ok so here is the thing im 26 and going out with a 23 year old , i really like him and found myself falling for him , the thing is im scared as in the past ive had really bad relationships where my ex have been abusive to me , now th...

How do I find a single guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Is there something wrong with me I just can not understand why I only seem to find guys that already have girlfriends attractive. How can i find a guy that seems attractive to me yet single too? ...

How do I deal with his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I have a kind of complicated problem, but I'll try to shorten it up.... I am in a long distance relationship currently with an amazing guy. Problem is, I still feel threatened by his ex gf. We met in the summer while he was still dating her, and ...

Conflict and frustration with boyfriend,.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - im currently in a relationship where we dated for just over a year, due to unforseen circumstances we had to call it a quits, for a year after that we never spoke and now for the past 2 years slowly we have become friends again(now 3 years after ...

Slept with him but he doesn't want a serious relationship..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I slept with this guy i have know for years. Everything was going great but i didnt know where i stood with him. I asked and he sed he didnt want a serious relationship at the moment, but when i asked him that if things were different, would they be ...

What do you do when your life is going all wrong but you cover it up and act like everything is okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - what do you do when your life is going all wrong but to cover it up you fake a smile and act like its all, all right? see i have this boyfriend named Dylan hes suppost to be my love and everything but hes always agreeing with Joe. see Joe always ...

Am I overreacting or do I just need to trust him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - So, my boyfriend of one year is going out of town to take a test. While he is up there his friend who lives nearby may come visit him. The problem is she is a woman. He told me about it and I appreciated that but I asked if she knew he was dating ...

He like her, she has a bf. But I like him..so where does that leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i really like a guy a met but we're not close. but he really likes my friend. and recently my friend got a boyfriend and the guy got jealous and now he has a girlfriend. i don't know if this is because he's trying to get back at my friend or not. ...

The trauma of losing her is really affecting my life, my work.. How can I know whether she is telling me the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - I met a girl i had known sometime back after a long time of missing link. some how we got to know each other better and remained friends for about a month. Everything that went on between us clearly told me we were in love so i decided to propose ...

Ex bf trouble..I'm thinking of him too much.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - well...my ex and i were together for a number of years but slip up nearly 2 years ago, ive been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year now and im really happy with him. But i still think about my ex, even though when we were together he ...

The past few times we were supposed to meet up he's come up with excuses! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship (I'm in England he's in Scotland) for the past 4 1/2 years. We haven't met up as much as I would like and sometimes this has taken it's toll and we've fallen out for a few days. The past few times he's h...

Grounded for 3 weeks because I spent the nigh at my bf's house...Now he's taking it out on me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months have told each other that we love each other. We have only been going out for 3 months but we were seeing each other for 3 monthe befor hand. I stayed at his house the other night but my mum and dad dont approve of ...

BF of a year doesn't love me or think he ever can and prefers his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - OK a shorter version of my 'boring' one...my bf loved me once many months ago but doesn't now and doesn't think he ever can - or anyone else supposedly - yet having been with me over a year still prefers his ex (who dumped him). He's a good bf, but ...

I still like him, but I made him feel that I don't care but I do...a lot. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - i am fat. there is this guy whom i like but he doesnt like me. he knows that i like him.....he was very nice to me about it but he changed(somethings happened but i dont want to tell them). he sent back a message from my friend for me that i sh...

23, 6 weeks together and now I could be pregnant. Will it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - O.k...I have been dating a great guy for about 6 weeks, and after I didn't get my period (I haven't had one since we've been together) we realized that I am most likely pregnant. I am going to find out for sure this weekend. I am just having some ...

This 23 year-old guy gave me my first orgasm - I'm 38 and married. Should I move out to India to be with him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - If anyone out there can help ME GET MY HEAD STRAIGHT please do. At the end of Dec 2007 I met the most lovely, handsome and charming Indian man - problem is he is 23yrs old - 15yrs younger than me and I am married,I have always been faithful to...

How do I play it cool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - Recently i've met this girl, and i think shes beautiful and really nice, and id really like to get to know her, ive seen her once or twice after meeting her originally, and now im becoming a lot more paranoid, although not as much as i'd usually be ...

Would a girl know that I like her with this kind of xmas gift?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - Were co-workers and we've known each other for about 5 months now. Hung out couple of times and seem to start a good friendship. I'm so into this girl but i just cannot read her. She seems to appreciate little things i give her once in a while, ...

I don't know about our future together. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for a year and 8 months, but like 5 months ago he moved back to New Orleans. Ever since then I'v been upset because I've been hurt too many times in the past and afraid to get hurt again and we're starting to ...

First love, but we don't say I love you...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - im going out with this girl who i really do think is my first love..but we dont say i love you to eachother, ive said it before and it caught her offguard which made us take a week a way from eachother, so i learned the lesson to wait, dont get me ...

Why doesn't he seem to want to be more than friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Hi All well maybe some insightful people here can give me some insight.... I dated this man 4yrs ago for a short time it was a whirl wind romance that didnt work out. It was both our fault. we ended on bad terms. But years later we recon...

Should I keep this long distance relationship going or get out now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - Can long distance relationships actually work??? im 18yrs old and live in scotland at home with my father and i have met a really nice guy who is 21. he stays by himself in his own house in england. we have been talking for a good while and done c...

Do you think he's interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I'm attracted to a man who works in a different division at my agency. We get along great but I haven't yet decided how he feels about me. But one woman who works with him has told me a few times that he talks about me a lot in their office. Do you ...

Do some girls enjoy emotionally hurting guys and using them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - Well she had recently been ignoring me and i had been wondering why she had been doing this. It was really upsetting me so i tried ignoring her to get her to realize how much it botherd me, nothing changed. Well i had till now been waiting for...

Is it ok for a senior to date a sophmore??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - I like her a lot but the age diffrance has me a little worried and people at my school tend to call people cradle robbers etc when they date people who are not in the same grade. I really like her but I want to make sure its ok for me to date her. ...

She blows hot n cold. Is she interested or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (M) - Ok, This may seem like the run of the mill question however. I started this new job say 5weeks ago, and this girl started about 2 days after me, we have started to get on quite well etc. I drop her off home after work, and we have alot in common, ...

Could I be bi sexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 January 2008 (F) - I am 19 years old and i have a boyfriend. I find men attractive and i like having sex with them. My sex life is quite normal for my age and im only interested in dating men and pulling men and i always have been. The only thing is, i get off more on ...