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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She admits she doesn't call people..so does this mean I will do all the work of calling? Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I'm a lesbian and I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks, things have gotten fairly intense, we get along, laugh, but we havent had sex yet. She said to me she is a person who "doesnt think" that her head is "not thinking" most of the time, ...

My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...

Do women actually like the 'needier' man and enjoy caretaking him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Does anyone think that some women can actually like needy guys who never got love from their mothers?I guess I'm asking are there women who like to take care of men? And if so,why?...

Long Distance Relationship and Future Plans--When do you know to keep trying and when to give up?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 83 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a good man for 9 years. This has been through a lot of change (in jobs, location, school etc.) for both of us. We have had hard times and good times together. Right now, he is out of state (6 hour drive. ) Recently ...

Am I being foolish to toss away a good 5 year relationship for another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I have been in a 5 year relationship with a very kind loving man. im 23, hes 25. iv started having feelings for a friend, hes 30. i know he feels the same 4 me, but am i being foolish throwing away 5 years.. im jus not sure about my feelings f...

In love with my best friend, please help........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - We've been very good friends since our childhood.These days I hardly get the opportunity to meet her as we both are busy with our jobs,but that really didn't affect our friendship. I love her from the bottom of my heart,but I could never express ...

Everything is great apart from the bedroom department..I can't seem to please him. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hi there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for about six months now. Everything is great apart from the bedroom department. He completley pleases me in every way but i only happen to be able to do it to him in the trousers department. Ive tried ...

I still love her and she knows that. Why is she doing this hurtful thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one ...

He's not in the mood anymore! Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Should I stay or should I leave? My boyfriend and I have been together for close to 15 months now. Ou physical intimacy has been non-existent for the last 3-4 months. But we still have a great time when we are together. There is no tension, whenever...

He's not affectionate and I love it! I want more and he's pulling away..what can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hi hope you all can help as I'm feeling pretty down right now. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is wonderful we have the exact same sense of humour, similar interests, similar tastes, we basically on the outside looking ...

He's unmotivated and I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. Help me understand all this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a couple of months now and I like him a lot although I can't understand why I have suddenly stopped feeling for him. I have recently started working out again and we had been talking about getting in shape and eating ...

I'm 16, he's 31 and I met him online. Should I meet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Hey im 16 i have been talking to this guy online for a few months. To start with i didnt knw his age n he didnt know mine. I recently found out he's 31 he thought i was about 19 but now knows im 16. We both like eachother but know it would be kinda...

My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby..how do I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My best friend is being beaten by the father of her baby. This is quite complecated so bear with me please. My friend had a baby a year ago with her then boyfriend, she has a flat and its ment to be for her and baby only but the dad lives there ...

My relationship is losing it's luster. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I'm sure there are thousand posts like this one every day. Well here is where I am at...I'm worried that my relationship is losing it's luster. My girlfriend and I have only been together for a little over 6 months, but we both believe (or we talk ...

Met a guy off the internet, had sex and I like him. How do I tell him about my son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I'm 19, and I've been meeting guys off the internet. I've already met 3 this week, I've had sex with 2 of them and realised I like 1 of them. I've met him twice, but we only met for sex. He wants to meet me again and knows I have an 8 month old son. ...

I don't want to marry the wrong guy..so who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - I has been dating with my boyfriend, H for 3 and ½ years. We love each other since day 1 in our relationship. However, I found out that we have lost sparks in our relationship recently although we didn’t have any quarrel. 3 months ago, I met a guy, ...

I miscarried and he left me! I want to work things out. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My long term boyfriend broke up with me on the day I found out I had miscarried our child. He rang me up to find out about the news and was very supportive. I miss him and love him so much and he still wants us to do things together but keeps saying ...

Why do I have moody spells?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - please help i am 18 years old and i am really moody when ever me and my boyfriend have a good day out i alays seem to end it by me having a öoody spell and i dont know why plus when me and my boyfriend have a little problem i always make the problem ...

New girlfriend cries all the time, how can I handle this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi, first of all, thanks for reading this. I am a 27-year old guy currently in a 4-month old relationship with a 32-year woman whom is working in the same company(albeit different department). Ever since we got together, she started crying every...

Whenever a guy gets close to me...I get cold! Am I too immature for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - hi i really want a steady boyfriend but when ever a guy gets close with me i go cold! i cant help it i just get these feelings that make me want to run! yet theres this guy i long to be with whos not interested. Is the feelings i have for him the...

Too young to have a boyfriend at 18? Is she just playing hard to get or is she being serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - i like this young girl .she's 18 i am 24.i met her at a music concert when she walked up to me after i greeted her and i ended up buying her a drink.so i thought the lady likes me.afterwards if she sees me in town she would greet me smiling and ...

Going with my girl for 2 years, but the little things are annoying me, any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hello, my problem is this. I've been with a girl for nearly 2 years. I had liked her for some time before and eventually we came together. It was a weird twist of fate for me since this thing usually does not happen, and I was thrilled. I thought ...

How do I respond to this guy? Should I give him all my attention or be more calm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Although i speak with the man i used to date last year and i saw him some times during this year there isn't easy to arrange to meet each other. Usually he is working or he has a lot of social responsibilities so he hasn't plenty free time. ...

FAllen for my best gal pal..but..she is interested in another girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I have fallen for my best female friend. Unfortunately, she has other interests... another girl. They are consumed with each other, although they do not claim to be an item, they pretty much are and they have kissed, that's as far as I know they've ...

How can I make him more interested in me instead of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - Theres this young fellow i like, and hes obviously interested in me as well because he asked me to be his gf.. but we were at a party and he was drunk, so i declined.. but we're friends who will "see what happens in the future.." Moving on.. he ...

He swears he loves me. But I can't help but feel he's truly not attracted to me. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 27 and I am 36. I want sex about 5 x a week, but he says he just can't do that. I found, however, that he looks at porn about every other day. I could do it more than we do, and he knows how his choice of porn over me makes me ...

He's in love with her but still calls me! Why does he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I have long ago broke up (like a month and a half ago)..well he now has a girlfriend and he says he's in love with her...but he has call and texted me for sex while they've been together...and now he has been texting me for the ...

What tolerance or threshold limit one should have on his/her past?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - I've recently got together with a girl who had quite a past. She has been very truthful and open about them. She's had 5 ex-boyfriends before we got together. I have no problem with that for sure as I have numerous past relationships myself. However ...

Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i ...

He want's to suddenly slow it down! What happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (F) - i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months and i recently met his parents and a week later he tells me that he thinks we are moving too fast and he would like us to talk it slow. He didnt really say what he meant by that or how things should ...

Help! I can't get it 'up' for her and I don't want to lose her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hey. I am 17 years old. Recently, I have been with a very close friend of mine, whom I have known since pretty much the beginning of high school. She is one of my best friends, we hang out all the time, and we basically talk about everything with ...

Help with my girlfriend...has she got someone else because I feel really used here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Currently in a relationship for over a year now with my girlfriend, who's 17 and I'm 20. For the whole year we've always been in touch and haven't gone a day without talking to each other. However for the last couple of months, shes been acting kind ...

She likes me-I like her but she's way out of my league. How do I tell her that we can't date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - This girl at school really likes me and I like her but the only thing she is way out of my league and i feel i wouldn't be able to handle her as people would say and i just want to be friends with her for now because childhood relationships never ...

It seems I can't do anything right for her and she doesn't trust me due to a cheating ex husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 January 2008 (M) - Hi, new to this, 24 yrs old, so here it goes. My gf, of 7 months is ex-military, been to iraq and seen some stuff. She was cheated on when she was married before, and has always been told she's a screw up. I've told her repeatedly that i love her ...