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writes:i have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months and i recently met his parents and a week later he tells me that he thinks we are moving too fast and he would like us to talk it slow. He didnt really say what he meant by that or how things should change and am very confused and i think i might end it because i somehow think that maybe that is what he wants. someone help my poor head before it explodes. Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (15 January 2008):
Maybe he thinks you are already thinking marraige and usually men don't like being in a position they can't escape from.He means you need to act like girlfriend and boyfriend who've been dating for 3months.For some a formal meeting of parents is a serious step.The best way to cool yo head and stop it from exploding is talkin to him more so you can understand what he meant and expects.
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 January 2008):
 He is driving over the speed limits and thinks it is safer to pull back. He requires more time to get to know more about you before he wants to commit deeper into this relationship.
He wants to slow down which means he wants more personal freedom for himself while he realigns his focus on life .
Give him a break.
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reader, findingme67  +, writes (15 January 2008):
 If i was in your position, i would ask your boyfriend what he means when he says things are going to fast. I wouldnt end things quiet yet. I'd wait to her what he has to say and decide from that. You never know, maybe he hasn't had anyone meet his parents before and he's starting to really like you. Yes, some guys are sweet enough to want to take things slow so everything stays good.
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