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Whenever a guy gets close to me...I get cold! Am I too immature for a relationship?

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Question - (14 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2008)
A female Australia age 18-21, anonymous writes:

hi

i really want a steady boyfriend but when ever a guy gets close with me i go cold! i cant help it i just get these feelings that make me want to run!

yet theres this guy i long to be with whos not interested. Is the feelings i have for him the reason why i cant get close with anyone else or am i just too immature for the relationship thing?

thankyou

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A female reader, scythe Australia + , writes (15 January 2008):

scythe agony aunthey there,

i found that if i liked a guy, and then he started showing interest/being clingy/started liking me too, i lost interest in him. im not sure why. however! don't despair.. i recently found a guy who i like and who likes me back. admitedly i sometimes feel a little trapped and afraid of getting close. i think it is just something that takes time, and the right person.

do you want a relationship for the sake of having a relationship, or do you want a relationship because you met a great person. ponder this :)

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (15 January 2008):

Annalisa agony auntHi! I think being in love with someone else is likely to get in the way! However, you can and will meet the man of your dreams. The problem is just that wanting a relationship is not enough. You need to get to know people and see how things develop! I think you may be one of those people who need to fall in love before you get seriously involved.

Be patient and when you least expect it... BOOM! You're married!

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