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I still love her and she knows that. Why is she doing this hurtful thing?

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Question - (14 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago, she's now been going out with another guy for about 3 weeks. I don't know if it's a rebound, she saw a different guy for a couple of days before, and that was definitely a rebound. But this one seems more serious.

Anyway, when I sit with her in class, she wrote on her hand I 3 (heart) and their initials right in front of me! And then she showed me her organiser, which was saying how she's going to a place we used to go together, with this new guy on Saturday. Why is she doing this?

I know she's not trying to hurt my feelings, she's not like that, but she's also told me that we're over forever. I still love her and she knows that. Why is she doing this?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (16 January 2008):

rcn agony auntTell her how you feel. Let her know it's OK that you're over, but it's not OK to keep bringing up this guy to you. This is a huge form of dis respect. She needs to let you heal and move on in peace.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008):

well, some times women do things ,that drive men crazy.but they dont mean it. u maybe hurted this gurl badly, so she is she is fighting for her pride.or she still loves u ,and wants to get back.but dont know what she could do. therefore, i think u should try again,tell het that u love her.tell her that u r ready do anything to bring ur great time with each other back.finally, if she refused u would better 4get about this gurl,i know it might b hard on u.belive me even if u couldnt,try to pretend that u are over this gurl.maybe by that time she would do something.....

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