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writes:I am 39 year old woman with two children. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and haven't been for six years. I don't go out much as I can't afford it. I haven't got a lot of confidence in myself and become very nervous around men who I am attracted to. I would rate myself as nice looking, and I have men looking at me, but that is all they do. LOOK! Please give me some advice on how I can attract more attention, and how to react to it. Thank you for taking time to read this.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (7 April 2008):
 Hi,
I always say if you got it flaunt it. Always show off your best feature. If you have nice sized boobs wear something that show them off. The same goes for your bottom, if it is shapely wear something figure hugging. Guys are visual creatures - it doesnt mean we will try and jump on you but it will mean that you might get a second look and someone thinking they want to have a chat with you.
If you see a guy looking at you and you like the look of him, just give him a smile.
But meeting men in public places like bars and clubs is fraught with problems. A lot of the men will be married and at 39 you are more likely to get a man like this than a woman in her 20's. So just be cautious but not overly so. My wife always says the best way to tell is to ask a guy for his home phone number - if he says he hasnt got one or is evasive - you know he is married.
Good luck and try the internet you can be picky and you might just see someone you like.
Go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Im sending you some links to help you, A little homework
http://filofi.com/lifestyle/women/women-issues/how-to-attract-a-man/
http://ezinearticles.com/?Flirting-And-Self-Confidence-For-Women&id=762443
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html
Hunny I hope these help in some small way to improve things for you, Give you a boost love..The self esteem one was supposed to be at the top sorry got it topsy turvy if you need a chat at anytime message me love all of this may not apply to you but I find bits of each link will be of great benifit TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Have you tried online dating? I'm not sure how well it works in Great Britain, but in the States, the women on dating Web sites seem to get a tremendous amount of attention. Even women in their 60s do very well to my knowledge. Of course, a female should be fairly careful about it, but there are good guys online (like me. lol) as well as bums.
In regard to the men who sometimes look at you, give them a little sign, such as a smile, good eye contact, maybe even a wink. They are probably thinking they would like to know you, but guys are notoriously afraid of being turned-down in public and some just need a little urging to make the leap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): everyone gets nervous around someone they are attracted to. It's normal so don't stress about it!! lol
Stare back at those guys when they look at you . grab their attention and keep it . stare at them til they look back ( normally they will) and stare at them for slighty longer then needed and then look away but do it again almost right after . then go near them but not next to them and wait for them to come to you :)
here's a site thats helped me b4 maybe it will help you too.
www.links2love.com
then look on the dating part of the site and flirting tips . they have alot . I'm sure you'll find somthing !!!
I hope this helps
message me anytime!! and let me know if I helped !!!
GOOD LUCK!
*~VG~*
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