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writes:Okay, me and this boy have been together for almost 3 years - on and off, but do not go out...i am okay with that, but what i am not okay with is dealing with his actions. One day everything will be perfect, we will be happy and the next day he makes me feel like i am invisible. I love him and am willing to work things out. He knows what he is doing and he tells me that he's sorry and that he really does love me and that i have to always know that - no matter how he acts. I do believe it, and in the back of my mind i know he loves me, but what can i do to just be okay with everything, and always realize that he does love me even when he's not showing me at the moment? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ursw33testsin2nv +, writes (13 April 2008):
Ursw33testsin2nv is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnxz alot guys...i understand where u are coming from and i guess i just have to take it day by day and just see what happeneds from there...
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reader, tick-tick-boom  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 oh.. they blanked out the word p r i c k
i dont think that will work either...
And my bad i thought you meant like he'd purposley blank him.
But yeah you do need to talk to him. He might just be unstable at the moment.
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reader, scottishguy +, writes (12 April 2008):
hey im you bf's shoes at the minute. with my partner im a bit like your bf. i honestly dont no why i do it, i think there is something on his mind! maybe something bad has happened in the past. for example my brother died over a yr ago and i have days were im the happiest guy in the world n love spending time wi ma partner then i have days were i just want time by myself. do u no what i mean? its complicated.. just give him some space and tell him your there for him if there is anythin u can do. and is you can speak to him about and and find out why he's doin it.
good luck xx
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (12 April 2008):
Hmm... well your guy seems like a bit of a p**** (Sorry) If he loves you he would not make you feel bad or invisible.Yes he may love you, but does he respect you?I'm guessing he gets you down from time to time so really is he worth it.i dont think this on/off relationship thing is working.Honey, find yourself a new guy because im sure you'd be alot happier!Good Luck X
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