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writes:Ok, so my boyfriend is away for the summer and yes we are remaining together. The problem is, i went away for a few weeks - gals holiday, and we met these guys that were great fun to hang out with! i found one of them very attractive and although nothing happened - i think i have developed a crush on him! Now i will never do anything with anyone to jeopardise my relationship with my man, but what im wondering, does anyone think it is ok to be friends with this guy as part of the group of guys?? like i said nothing would happen but i do get along with them! im kinda thinking it could be just that my boyfriend is away for the summer and because he is absent, im noticing other guys. wat do you think? advice please, and im not sure whether i would see a friendship with this guy as inappropriate, but im sure my man would!! which i understand, thanks!! xxx
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 July 2007):
 Well, it's good you understand what your boyfriend would think. I think you're correct. The fact you're asking the question confirms it too. First question...you were away on holiday, in a jovial mood, did you flirt with this guy? Be honest.
It's possible that the more you see each other the more intense the feelings will get. That is not good. If you read some of the questions sent to this site, all the cheating ques ions start the same way......." I was just friends with MR X and then before I knew what was happening, we were kissing...." It's called temptation. We're weak and we're wired to be attracted to others. If the two of you are sending out signals of attraction, you'll step it up little by little. At the same time you'll convince yourself you can handle it. That is because you're enjoying the attention game. Then you'll cross the line and pretend you didn't see it coming.
It happens all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): crushes on other people are normal and ok as long as you dont act on them
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