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writes: Hey, I cheated on my boyfriend with another lad. I feel so bad, it's just my boyfriend spends too much time with other girls and for this one night this lad paid me attention and made me feel like it was only me and him in the world, sounds stupid I know, we didn't do much only got off with each other and I'm sure it was only a one night thing because we were both drunk but I really like him my mate said he's a player and only wants one thing. She's probably right but maybe people change, I really dunno what to do? I do really love my boyfriend but if I loved him that much I wouldn't have feelings for other guys right? I'm so confused? What happens if it happens again, did this guy really like me or was he just using me? A kiss must mean something right? plz help any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2007): No a kiss doesn't always mean something.If you really loved your boyfriend nothing in the world would have been enough for you to cheat on him.Don't throw the word love around when clearly you don't know what it means. You should tell your boyfriend see if he thinks your definition of love is anything to go by.If he finds out it will probably break his heart and all because you were jealous.You really should be ashamed of yourself.
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reader, GreenTea  +, writes (17 July 2007):
He was just using you. Dont ever date a guy on who you think you can make them. Date them on who they are. If you want to get used again give him a call. A kiss is only a tool to a player.
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