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Archived questions from: 25 February, 2013 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can I shake off these feelings of detachment or are we destined to fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi There. I have been in a relationship for just under a year and a half. It has been the best relationship I've had in truth. But something has changed and I'm not sure why. I'm in my mid-twenties and have had several relationships since I wa...

My g/f broke up with me saying she needs to find herself but wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi,I'm 20 years old and me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. She left me yesterday telling me that she wants to be my friend again and that she needs to find her own identity.Please help.I really want to get her back....

My boyfriend disrespected me by walking away with another girl after a party infront of me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been a relationship for 4yrs, we have had some rough patches such as last year I attended his birthday party and he disappeared then i learned he disappeared with another woman. This year,he held another party and the woman was there, d...

Should I ask this guy out? My friend thought I was joking when I told her about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am a student, and I have been working somewhere for a while. Im about ot leave in three weeks time, and I really want to ask out one of the guys there. Only thing is, that he is slightly older, lives with his mum, and is not the best looking of ...

I don't understand my girlfriend's behavior and I'm worried that something is really off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - i don't have a clue what to think about this situation and i'm incredibly confused about what's really going on. i have been with my girlfriend for about three months now, but something in the pit of my stomach tells me that i'm missing somethin...

I've never taken a guy on a date, what should I plan to do in London when he comes to visit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I'm 20 years old and I live in London, and there's a guy that I'm talking to who's 21 and he lives in Leicester, just over 100 miles away from me. I met him when I was in Leicester visiting my friends at their uni...

What girls mean when they say and how to work on to show how good I am?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - hi little about me : (not boasting) I am confident, easy to approach and Like jokes and talented. I play sports (four currently at campus) , write , and down to earth and honest. Helpful and kind with people. I have lots of other hobbies to...

Am I sexually satisfying my bf enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am 24 and recently moved in my bf of 1.5 years. I am FT grad student and used to work PT but it was alot so he pays everything until I finish ( a year). He is 30 and an attorney who makes over 6 figures. He said he doesn't mind and loves taking ...

To text or not to text... help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok, so I went out on a first date for drinks with someone I met online a few days ago. Things went really well, because he kept asking me the whole time about going out again to a movie or dinner. The next morning, he texted me and told me to have a ...

We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3660 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he ...

I thought he was the one. How could I have been so wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - We were together for a year. We connected on so many levels (emotionally, intellectually, physical intimacy). I've had many relationships before. I've even been married once. Never have I been so happy as I was with him. He broke up with me on the ...

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or n...

I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize an...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one ...

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...

I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend w...

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. ...

The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But ther...

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

She keeps finding fault with me. Though not afraid to ask for presents.Help please, because I am confused about what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - My gf and I have been dating for 2.5 years. We spoke today over the phone, and she asked me if I want to know what she feels right now. I said yes. She said that a few days ago, I had put her down. I asked how. She explained that she felt hurt wh...

My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...

I am heartbroken at how my mother behaves when drunk. My Bf says she needs help. Would it work to invite her to our wedding? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years now. My mom is an alcoholic. She wasn't always--but she got into an abusive 2nd marriage and we couldn't get her out of it. It started very soon after her and my dad divorced. Because of her...

He's kicked me and threatened to hit me. Will he improve? Is this relationship worth saving?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am in a committed relationship since 3 years and 7 months. The first 3 years we were in a LDR. Now we both stay in the same city. My bf sometimes behaves very badly with me because he feels that I control his life. I said its nothing like tha...

My girl friend prefers to sit on the couch and eat. Will not clean unless I am beside her cleaning too. She's lazy and not a team player. What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi, so I am 21 years old. I've been with my girlfriend for about a year now. Let me first say that she is a great girl. She sweet, funny, loyal, worships the ground I walk on and would follow me anywhere. And so would I. But the problem I'm ha...

What can I do to prevent my boyfriends from gaining weight while they are with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem, and it is becoming more noticeable with each relationship I have. The last 3 boyfriends of mine have put on significant amounts of weight. I am talking about 30-40 pounds. Not muscle, pure fat. I want to know what I can do to ...