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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's turned on by the idea I'm a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - So me and the guy i've been seeing for quite a while brought up the conversation of sex the other day. It was interesting because he's slept with 6 girls and he was surprised I hadn't slept with anyone. In fact, he said that he found it sexy and ...

I'm feeling guilty about finally being happy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - So I split up with my ex about a month ago now, two years of being treated badly and being unhappy finally came to an end, although we had our good times, the bad eventually weighed out the good which made it practically unbearable to be around ...

How can I find a girl who will love me for who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello I am a very old reader and writer of this website and I love the people here doing this great work of helping each other and people like me. Here is my situation and I would be really grateful if someone can help me. I am originally a Pak...

Is it better to just walk away if someone is playing games?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - I had a passionate love story with a girl for 3 months. Infact 2 months where great but the last I could feel things where slowing down. She started witholding sex which made me really angry so I asked her if she wanted to break up or continue ...

He does not want to be exclusive. I do want to be exclusive. Shall I wait until he is ready?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks. I really like him and we have fun together. The thing is, we've done some sexual stuff and I sort of feel weird that I did that with someone who isn't my boyfriend. He just got out of a long-term relati...

My culture is uncompromising about virginity before marriage. BUT I am not a virgin. What can I do? I cannot tell him, as the shame is too much.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - hi..i had a relationship with an boy i was loved him deeply... Nearly 14 months back only once i had sex with him.. he was not loving with me just wanted to enjoy sex with me we broke up... i was really hurt at that time.. i met with a boy...

His Russian friend is very interested in him. Am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy since March. He's 33 and I'm 20. He's a master student and is going to graduate this semester and go back to his country. Unless he gets a job here. Our relationship is private as we agreed since the beginning, and we start...

He is obsessed with the bodies of women. Other women. I am wrong to feel so insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Ive always been the type of girl who hasnt been really insecure. I knew i turned heads when i walked in the room until my current bf of 5 months and then it was like i became so insecure about my body. I guess i should start by saying I am his firs...

Is this too much to ask? I just want to meet, love, enjoy that one guy who'll change my life for the better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - When will it be my turn to find love? Am I really that undesirable? I mean I know I'm only 17 but it's so sad and depressing being alone. It's already hard enough being gay, but having to hide who you really are with absolutely no one to confide ...

Do I listen to some of my friends who say don't date her? Or do I just go ahead and ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - First off, this is NOT just a teen phase or something when you read it. Ok, so I really like this girl P, and she just got out of a short term relationship where she got cheated on. I am a trumpet player, and she is in our high school marching ...

Can I trust her? Does not seem so. What should I do about this unacceptable situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - My girl and I been together for 3 years. It was great until freshman yr of college wen i started having trust issues and then we became unstable. She cheated on me with a guy then told me a month later they had kissed; it took awhile to get over but...

My married lover is putting up barriers to me seeing her. And she wants to hide me from her children when her divorce goes through. What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello, I'm going to give the whole story of my situation. I know it's morally wrong but no one is perfect. So please don't respond if you want to talk about morals. I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationshi...

My Gf's extreme sex drive is out of control. She wants excitement. Does she need therapy? Or is there any way I can help her without breaking up - the latter would make her more vulnerable, I think

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I've resorted to reading the site here cause I've had trouble "Google-ing" my situation with any real results. So before I post the question a disclaimer here is; I don't want anyone to comment on how I shouldn't be bothered by my G's h...

Who should I reach out to to help my boyfriend? He will not talk to anyone. He is in a bad place and I am not sure who to turn to to get him help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year. I love him with all of my heart. We have a lot of fun together when times are good. But lately, he has become more and more suicidal. He threatens to kill himself every few days. I try ...

I am a loner and enjoy solo activities. BUT, based on your thoughts, ... Do people date loners? Or do they retreat from dating loners and why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Would you date a loner? I don't have that many friends, but it's not because of Social Anxiety Disorder or because I do strange things. I'm just highly independent, enjoy spending time self-reflecting and doing solo activities (reading,...

I adore him but there are problems in our LDR. Is this fixable? and how? Family and friends claim he is "Controlling."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my current partner for almost four years in an LDR, I am very deeply in love with him and I have shared some good times with him. He makes me laugh, treats me like a princess and I have had a lot of notable 'first' experiences with ...

Is this a date? Even if he also brings his brother and his cousins to go with us? My Mom says it is a date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Okay, so is it considered a date if I got to the movies with my boyfriend. And his cousins and brother? My mom says it is, but idk? ...

I feel so guilty about crushing on this girl at Uni who may or may not be gay. Especially considering that I have a LDR Gf who I adore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - This is going to sound really messed up but ever since I started uni I have had a huge crush on a girl that works at the uni who has a really gay vibe about her. She dresses quite butch, but I have a feeling she's straight because I've seen her arou...

Break it off? Or should I continue to date this guy? He is Mr RightNow to me but that's all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I met this man this past summer and have since gone on several dates with him. I am not attracted to him physically AT ALL but thought he was a nice guy so decided to get to know him more and see if there's something.............. He is crazy ab...

He's never pushed for sex. So is he just not into me? Or is he not over his ex yet? How do I respond?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Hello, So I know the answer really... He's just not that into you, move on, but as a lady in my mid 30's I still feel the need to ask Pathetic really So I meet this guy in a bar, he's funny, smart, sexy I like him a lot. We see each oth...

She was the ONE. Her family did not like me. Losing her has destroyed me. So now, why can't I get another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Why can't I get another girl? In high school pretty girls liked me but let me stress that I was not very good at talking to them like I'm okay but not great. I relied on sports and my looks and once I knew a girl liked me I would go talk to her. ...

I'm worried about bringing the mistakes from my last relationship into my next one

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I feel like my last relationship is ruining me. We were together for 15 months and he was my first love. I'd say 12 months into the relationship things started to change, he became controlling and i knew this but didn't stop it and i regret it. I ...