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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I consider taking him back? He's been a player and he wants me back, but he's not doing it the right way to interest me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I really do need your help everyone. I broke up with my first Love 7 months ago. We were going on 2 years. We had a very serious LDR and marriage was always talked about. He introduced me to his family and friends as his wife not even his girlfri...

Is this a cultural thing? I'm not sure if it means more or not? He's from England and I'm from Australia

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Now this might sound a over reaction but my boyfriend text me goodnight and said see you soon luv?!!! Isn't luv what you would say to some random girl not your girlfriend of a year? He's English and I'm from Australia so is it common to use suc...

Do you think our date went well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - We met and drank tea for an hour. I offered to pay but he didn't let me. He was very tried; we both have had a very long day. We talked continuously and had a nice time (I would say) but then he had to go back to his work to his cubicle in the ...

I'm cheating on my girlfriend with a girl I'm infatuated with. I want them both!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I have been with my gf for 3 years. We started dating shortly after I ended my only other relationship, which had lasted 9 years, partly so that I could experience being single for the first time in my life. I wasn't looking for a relationship at ...

Have you ever caught your spouse, fiance or boyfriend perving on high school girls and I found his porn stash

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - When we go out to eat at a local restaurant (it's a small rural town) I noticed that my boyfriend will stare over quite a lot at the local waitresses teenage daughter who is 17 when the daughter decides to come into the restaurant to see her mother ...

Is it ok to send him one last text asking what happenend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I started dating a guy about a month ago. It seemed like he was very into me. He told me he was excited to have me in his life. He would text me good morning every day and send me texts throughout the day and at night he would text me good night. ...

I do love my boyfriend but how do I know if he really is the one?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. I have cheated on him once, I kissed another guy at a party when I was 17 which was 4 years ago. Recently I have been talking to another man who is a friend of a friend. Just talking as friends, ...

I asked out a 45 year old woman, I am 28 years old. Where to take her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. I have met a 45 year old lady and we have been talking for the past 2 months. I didn't meet her online or at a bar. I met her because she lives very close to me. I am 28 years old, single and we seem to have and feel a tension when ...

How do I give him space when he's the only one I want to be talking to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months now. Everything was going great on Friday but a few days later he started acting funny. Like not texting good morning like he used to every single day or not calling at night like e usually ...

If he can get amazing looking girls, then what is he doing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months We were having a conversation about exs - when he was describing one he said some features and I go so she was a full hot girl? Then he goes I would t describe her as hot, she was cute. Then I g...

Did he allow me to be intimate with him due to pressure from me or could he be bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunties, Have a question here. I am a 29yr old male bisexual guy. I have sought out this guy 7yrs younger than me for the past 5yrs. He has always been adamant that he is saved and cannot have a romantic relationship with me. I however never ga...

He likes big butts and he can not lie... why does he look if he's got me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - my bf is 10 yrs older and we have a good relationship. BUT he has a habit of looking at big butts of colored/teen women on the internet. So if hes happy why is he doing this? is it because im old and white? i feel as if im not good enough. ...

Older guys want me, but with guys my age I strike out! Why am I unlucky in love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - This is not a specific question but just something I have been mulling over lately. I am 42 years old and have always been unlucky in love. I have a good job, I'm a nice person, not bad looking and without blowing my trumpet I think I have alot ...

How can I keep my low self esteem from ruining my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I always have low self esteem. When I look around, most of the guys that I like or admire have girlfriends that I can never live up to. Some of the girls are air stewardess, some are even models. I am recently single and after a long struggle...

Am I being selfish or am I right about breaking up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - I met this woman with four children when she was still married and we emailed each other for a month before we finally met. On our first date she took me back home and after a short conversation she basically offered her body. Somehow I turned down ...

Where do the single women in their 30s hang out? I've not dated for 2years. How do I maximise my chances of success with women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - So, been single for 3 years after a 9-yr LTR. Am now 38. And I have not been on a date in 2 years. I tried online dating for 18 months and got 2 dates out of it. Am a member of many clubs and have many hobbies. Meeting people is not an...

He's reluctant to try any solutions. But he has trouble getting it up. What can I do about this? What might help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Hi, My bf and i have been dating for about a year. I think he has performance anxiety. He can get a erection fine, when we make out or when i give him oral, but as soon as we move on to penetration, he loses it. As a result, we have yet to have...

I like this man but am unsure about how to approach him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I would like to direct this question to the guys even though ladies opinions are welcome too. I have become very attracted to a japanese man who works at the embassy in my country. I met him when I started applying for graduate school in Japan and ...

My Gf claims she had relations with a woman and guy just watched. How can I tell if she is telling the truth about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (M) - My GF told me she was intimate with another woman when we were first dating casually. She said it was set up by a guy friend she met online and casually dated, but was never interested in. The other woman was also a friend of this guy and met him ...

Should I have sex now at 15?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Okay. So here is the deal. I am 15 yrs old my boyfriend is 17. We have been together for 9 months. I'm not dumb, and Im not gullible. I love him so much but I'm not the type of girl to express my feelings,so he doesn't know how much I care. Yet he ...

Can you date one person and not be boyfriend/girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - I've been a serial monogamist. 3 years, 2 year, 1 and 1/2 year relationship. I've never really "dated" multiple people at once. Call me Old fashioned - but it seems disloyal. Am I wrong? Within the last 3 months, I started dating for the first...

Advice please? First time sex for a 24 year old virgin. Is it as painful as some say it is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

9 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I think ive found my 'one' we've been going out for a while now and are coming upto a point n our relationship where we both want sex. However I'm scared this would be my first time. I really like this guy and want to take our relationship...