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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Can you guide me towards better choices? Why does he not bother with me at all anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I (together for 2 and half years) are going through a really bad phase of our relationship and it doesn't seem to be letting up any time soon. Our relationship has hit rock bottom and I'm driving my self mad trying to figure...

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of ...

Twelve years together. But now his porn addiction has taken a nasty turn for the worse. Should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My man friend (been together 12 years) has a porn addiction. In the last 6 months..he's given out his phone number so these nasty ladies can contact him by text. He say's it's just a game. The other day I looked at his history and discover...

How do I learn to trust him? And how many second chances should I be giving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - First off the last year and a bit I've been on and off with this guy (j). More off than on to be honest. We started seeing each other in September and it finished early November. But in that time I fell in love with him, and I've been through ...

After 5 years he's still putting off us moving in together. Is this relationship going anywhere?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and we are both 24 years old. We get on well most of the time and love each other a lot. I have my own house but he still lives at home with his mum. I'm getting to a point in my life where i am ...

I've joined a marriage website but I'm terrified to know what to say to potential partners... Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello Aunties and Uncles, Well after the end of a 2-year relationship I'm ready to start dating and I've joined a marriage website! Being new to this, I would be very grateful if anyone could offer me tips on what to say, how much info should...

How best can I find a partner that I can enjoy life with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I originally wrote http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-aspergers-and-im-bisexual-how-do.html Thank you for your advice. As for the positives, I'm good at computers and have a variety of interests - however, these tend to be very male-domin...

Do I keep hoping we will reconcile...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend after a year together. He said we should just be friends and that he feels we rushed things as we both had marriage in our minds. He feels we have nothing in common and that we arent compatible. However, he says he ...

How do I heal the relationship? Do I love too deeply?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I have been with my bf for 21 months - nearly two years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son together. I have two kids at home with me so two toddlers. Last night though, out of nowhere he turned around and told me he fell out of love with me ove...

Do I choose to love the one I'm with? Or the exLDR who loves me but doesn't want an LDR again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Any answers at all are so appreciated! I have been in an LDR for 2 years now. It's working fine. Before my current boyfriend I had a different LDR but with a guy who I had never met. I broke up with this guy before we got to mee...

I'm at my wits end. Help! what should I do. The Laptop gets more attention than me in this relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hi everybody, well my problem is this.... For the last two years since ive been with my bf he has been constantly working on his laptop to make a computer game (not so much in the first few months) It's his dream to make it big and i support hi...

Bad attirtude. Poor communication What should I do about him? Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Heya, Actually the guy studies in my college...but different faculties... we found some mutual friends on fb... I knew little about him...he asked for my number... I gave him my numner because I thought we'll be friends ...he's really a nic...

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F) - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did...

Help! I'm scared. This girl in our group already took over one girl's Bf. Now what can I do? Because I think she's after my Bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Hello:) Thanks in advance for your time:) I'm in a relationship, which is going well, and we are both in the same friendship group. All his guy mates, and all my girl mates are all mates! haha, but there is one problem. One of my girl mates...

He blocks me out. Yet I do everything for him and his children. Is it time to stop being so giving? or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I met him about 4 years ago. 2 years ago we finally got together after both being in love with each other for about a year. He is about 10 years older than me and has a few kids. At the start things were perfect. He was so in love with...

Which woman understands me best? I feel more love for this second woman. What should I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - i have a baby with someone and i stay with her, but the problem is i have beendating someone else, for more than a year now. The other woman and I love one another so so much. It is like my first relationship ever ,we talk ,we laugh and we understan...

Girls if a guy asks you out and you say no, then is it awkward for ever after between him and you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have never dated very much. My one and only girlfriend, with her, things just happened as if I didn't have control. I said things I wouldn't normally have said, I was forward and thats why things worked out. I was assertive. Usually though,...

Do I need to step back? Her new attitude worries me since she started getting counselling

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now. She has never been in a healthy relationship until we got together. She has had to take counselling to help her deal with these past relationships. On top of all this she's dealing with the ...

Our first Kiss. What's the best time in a school setting to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, s...

We want to settle down and have a baby. Getting our finances right to buy not rent is the aim. Have you achieved this goal successfully? How?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for just over 3 years and we really want to get our own place. We don't want to rent as we feel that we will be wasting money paying the rent each month and at the end of it we will have nothing ...

I'd really like to have a relationship with her -- how can I get her to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4203 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have liked this girl for around a year and she is amazing. She is smart pretty and Amazing at sports. We both go to the same school and are freshman. We also both do cross country and track, both of which she is amazing at. The only ...