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Archived questions from: 11 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I leave him and start over? I don't know what to do or where to start

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is Italian and I'm from the UK. We have been together 4 years. I gave up everything and moved to Italy so we could be together. We are practically married and often talk about starting a family. Things were good for the first couple of ...

I'm Taken. So How Can I Stop Liking This Guy and just stay as Friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Here's some background info: Both me and the new Guy, J are taken separately. We both knew each other about a year ago, and right now we're both in a serious relationship with our significant others. The first time we knew each other, I was ...

I am jealous and insecure of his female friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in my first serious relationship. I've found some aspects of it hard, such as learning to trust my boyfriend, learning not to worry about things, learning to be confident and so on. I must stress that I have come a very long way in thes...

Would you date someone who you knew was going to move to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - Would you date someone if you knew he/she was leaving the country within the year and there could never be anything serious? I am coming out of a relationship and I want something very casual, but I will be moving away within the year. I feel bad...

Is it wrong to want a proper blow-job from my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4214 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, she's the only girl I've ever been with and I love her, everything is perfect but there is one thing she won't do for me. She won't finish me off with a blow-job ever. I'm not even asking her to swallow ...

Does my college crush like me or was he just being a gentleman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid Aunties and Uncles, I have got a crush on a guy and I would like to know if you think I am correct to think he is not just being friendly. He is in all of my classes. If he sits next to me, we sit quite close together, almost tou...

Why doesn't he make the first move or admit his feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some assistance conquering an odd situation with my guy friend. Since meeting him over a year ago, we have become really close friends where we talk on the phone almost everyday religiously and hangout whenever we have time in ...

Why can't I hold down a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Why can't I hold down a relationship? I'm 22 and I've never had a relationship that has lasted more than 2 months. I'm not seriously unhappy being single but I'm starting to worry that now all my friends have had at least one serious relation...

Why do I shake when near climaxing? I'm embarrassed. Is it normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - So when and my boyfriend are doing foreplay I obviously get turned up to the point of climaxing and when I know I'm nearing that I get him to stop. I do this because I tend to shake when I do. I'm worried that he'll find it weird which is why I st...

I really like this girl but hardly ever see her. Should I continue when I feel this disappointed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - I have started seeing this girl and its been going on for about a month. When we're together its really nice but thats the problem. She never wants to see me. shes always too busy going to parties which i never get invited to. We arranged to meet...

I love my boyfriend but how do we get the spark back? I felt that spark with another guy and was tempted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, I've not written anything here in a while - I've not needed to! I've been in a happy and stable relationship for two and a half years. However I've had something playing on my mind and I need to get it out. My other half went to Can...

Fallen for the wrong type of woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - I am old. Almost 35 and separated 6 months ago with a kid, in what was a loveless relation since years and maybe never. Anyway it did not work because I chosed for me a wrong kind of partner. A woman which was very self centered and not so much fam...

Should I quit work and return to Uni? In a LTR which may be affected by the decision.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - This isn't really a relationship problem but I would be very grateful for any advice offered. Basically I suspended my uni studies last year due to personal problems and I'm torn between going back or not. I'm worried if I do go back the same thing ...

There's trouble in our relationship. Can it be fixed? Or is there too much to solve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - WE are about a year together but last 3 month has changed everything with my boyfriend, before he was without job,last 4 month he start a new job but when that happened he became less active with me ,we talked everyday text every day, said to each ...

Is there any way to confirm when I'll be ready for sex? I'm feeling better about it but I am still unsure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - So I was talking to my friend yesterday about relationships and sex. She's done more stuff with her boyfriend than me, but like she totally understands how I feel. She told me to just have fun and if you trust the person you're with, that I've noth...

Should I pursue this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (M) - "Dear Cupid," I am a freshman in high school, and I need some advice. I am in band, and I really like this girl on dance line thats my age. Well, last friday was homecoming and she started dating this big guy, I like to refer to him as "Blonde ...

Should I let the age difference bother me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I met a beautiful person and I'm so afraid to let myself go and fall harder for him. i guess im so worried about our age difference, I am 39 but get told that i look 25-28 and he is 23. We been sort of dating and talking for seven months, he ...

Boyfriend moving away - again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I need advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and recently he got a job 2 hrs away from the city. He asked me to move with him and it was lucky enough that I could transfer offices. So I've been living in a new town for 2 months with ...

How do I cope with the insecurities? Help me please ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - Well my boyfriend and i have been dating almost 2 months. On october 13... I love him so much, but for some reason we dont get along. We fight over the stupidest stuff. When we make love...everything is great. We get along when its just me and him,...

This is affecting my relationship. When I'm alone I've been feeling really guilty. Why does this happen considering I've never cheated on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4216 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - So lately I've been feeling really guilty and it's not all the time. It's just when I'm alone. Which is becoming much more frequent. I haven't cheated and I haven't even flirted with anyone. I'm not even sure if I would feel confident flirting any...

Did he act up towards me and watch lots of porn in the hope that I would break up with him first? I still love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4215 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I need help with this. I almost broke up with my bf. because i know that there is something fishy about him, although when he says he will do something he sees to it that he will be able to keep his words. He's into porn, i've proven his li...

Should I take a chance with the new guy? But why do I stop liking a guy once he shows interest? It seems I always like guys who I can't have :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4139 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - I'm sorry for the long question but I have to explain the whole situation, so please just bear with me! So, I think I have a problem but I'm not sure what it is... I'm twenty years old, I've never been in a relationship and I've only ever kissed...

My boyfriend wrongfully accused me of lying to him. Is this a deal breaker for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

11 October 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together off and on for over a year now. Before we started dating, I was hanging out with him and an acquaintance of ours, after a night of drinking and partying with some friends. We decided to call it a night and this o...