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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

21 and never been on a date. I'm worried I never will be!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4209 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I am 21, I have never been on a date with a girl, never kissed a girl. My generalattitiude is "I can't do it, I am never going to find somene, so why bother anymore?" I know I am "attractive" I work out alot and my girl friends (notice the ...

Did I make a mistake by not kissing her on the first date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I have been on a few first dates before. I have never kissed a girl or tried to make a move on her on a first date. One, I dont feel comfortable to try and to, I would want to show her im not trying to just get with her and that I want to get to ...

Should I be worried if my boyfriend admits to cheating on past girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Should I be worried if my boyfriend admits to cheating on past girlfriends? I know it's not fair to hold his past that had nothing to do with us against him. I don't. I just can't help to be nervous though...because I was cheated on by my ex...an...

I get on really well with my boss. Why doesn't he make a move? Should I make the move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I get on with my boss ridiculously well, we are completely on the same wavelength, both in our twenties and both single. For around 6 months we have been flirty in work (I usually only work with him on a weekend) and he often remarks that he think...

My ex passed away and left me money, should I give it to his family?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I was dating this man for about 4 years after which we broke up,let's call him mark..so I broke up with mark cuz he cheated on me,and he begged for forgiveness I let it go once but I just cldnt get over the fact that he cheated ...

Is my boyfriend possibly controlling and abusive? Is he playful or hurtful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a very playful relationship but sometimes he can take things too far. The other night we were playing around he hit my chest really hard so I backed if and that made him upset. So I pulled him outside to talk. And he was ...

B/f has a darts night with a woman who is after him. How do I handle my troubled feelings?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi there Aunts, I have a continuing saga question...I can't seem to find my own way thru the fog yet have the nerve to give out advice to others that seems so clear to me. So humbly I need to ask how to handle myself, as I probably know what ...

Two teens madly in love. Do I stay or go? Or should I move on and try again when he grows up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I had been together for a year before suggesting that we take a break from the frustration of not seeing each other and fighting about it all the time. I was upset but found out that he just wanted me to be happy with someone....

Is my Gf into a new guy? I'm not a jealous guy, but something is not right. Any suggestions to resolve this please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4210 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I know this may sound bad but I think that my girlfriend is into some other guy. They always seem to be laughing and having the time of their lives (which I do not mind) but it seems like there is something else between them. She has recently been ...

Is it twisted that I have a boyfriend yet I have feelings for two of my cousins as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4208 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - I am 22 years old. I am in love with two of my cousins from my fathers side. The first one we will call "Charles". Until recently in December of last year, I confessed to him over the phone that I have found him attractive, he told me he has had ...

I have major Trust issues due to past experiences. Can you give me advice to cope better at trusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - It involves my ex bf. We broke up because I was a bit closed off, guarded even. I have a hard time trusting people and I've seen friends get cheated on so many times, that I have had an issue with trusting men I date. So, we broke up and I take ful...

I'm genuine and not shallow. But his performance recently? What could be the problem? Nerves? Or problems in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, new here but I've lurked around for a while so I'll just jump in. I had sex with my new boyfriend for the first time Saturday night. Foreplay was amazing best I've ever had actually, but when he wemt to put on the condom I noticed he wasn'...

Is it wrong to stay with a woman, even if you do not see long term potential?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - Basically, my GF of 2 years cheated on me with a stranger. She denied cheating and lied to my face until I confronted her with circumstantial evidence that eventually made her confess. Although she denies having sexual intercourse, she...

Why are girls not interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - I really can't understand why no girls are interested in me at all. I'm a nice caring guy, so can often get trapped in the friend zone but I was thinking the other day, I'm 19 and not one girl has ever shown an interest in me. I look in the mirr...

How do I get my friends and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real and that she's not a gold digger?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

16 October 2012 (M) - How do I get my friedns and family to see that the relationship I have with younger girl friend is real? I am 39 and a very successful business man. After breaking off my long time relationship with my ex I started dating a much younger 22 yr ol...