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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

She broke up with me saying she felt smothered! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Ive been dating a girl for the past 6 months (2 of which i just courted her). She never has boyfriends or even hookups and i had very strong feelings for her so i took things slow. Shortly after, she lost her job/apt so i had her move in with me. ...

Who do I believe? My friend? Or the guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Sorry in advance, this is probably going to be long. I've been joking up with this guy since July. From the beginning we said it wasn't going to be serious and if either of us wanted it to end we would say it flat out. We got closer over the weeks ...

Married user man vs nice guy

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been in an affair with a colleague of mine for about 5 months now. He told me he is having a really tough time with his fiance that he has known for 10 years and lived together with. They are separated now and live in different states. ...

He can't stand conflict and always leaves...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - hi.. I've been really down because me and my boyfriend just recently had a fight but this one was different. He said he was tired of having disagreements and he said he can't keep going through these kind of disagreements anymore. He's never h...

Waiting for her email.... or taking action?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4183 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I had an amazing 3 month relationship with a girl. After 2 months she started pulling away, avoiding sex. After 2 weeks of that we had a confrontation about it and she said she still wanted to be together. She lives in another city so after 2 ...

I texed him when I was drunk and now I'm really embarrassed. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - Damn!! I feel like a complete idiot. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks everything seemed great etc. And then last week he calls it off saying it's not me it's him and he needs to do things, like work gym. So I was like what the heck? Bu...

I don't know what to think... Has he fallen out of love with me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I've dated my boyfriend for 4 years. All that time he was caring and sensitive. Recently for the past few months I just don't understand what is happening with him. He is forever busy on weekends. If I want something I must do it now. Today he asked ...

Is she hinting to me that she wants a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Dear Cupid! I'm really needing some help here?! I met a lady back in February. She's a really, really nice lady. She's older than me. She's 39. I'm 34 in a few days. Anyway, it was one of those 'The minute we laid eyes upon one another we fe...

Contraceptive ideas???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I've been with my bf for close to 3 years now and we've used condoms as a contraceptive. We got tested together and we're both sti free. Im really tired of using condoms, I'd like a different kind of contraceptive. I'm not a fan of the pill either ...

She created a fake profile to talk with him after telling me she'd deleted him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - true issues. please help she made a fake profile on Facebook to talk to a guy behind my back, what should i do? Long story short, we had some trust issues because of this guy, she said she would block and delete him, she did that, then recently...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

She thinks I'm telling lies. So many misunderstandings. How do I convince her that I am the one telling the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4188 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - i posted a question a couple weeks back and got some good feedback. i wanted to see if i couldn't get a few more opinions and elaborate on the most recent happenings. about six weeks ago, my girlfriend had asked to use my phone to look something u...

What can I do? My love has faded. I don't know how to break up with him. And I cry just thinking about breaking up.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I need help..I've fallen out of love with my boyfriend. Been together for six months..i thought he couldn't handle commitment, and that he only wanted sex but he seems to put more effort into the relationship and i can see that he's really changing ...

Why is it that black men or Indian men or Chinese men NEVER approach me to date me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I'm of Indian origin but don't look stereotypically Indian. Most people find me too light skinned to be Indian and always think I'm half Indian. I'm pretty tall and have done ballet for years, so I'd say I have a pretty good figure. I'm quite skin...

I'm confused, because after 3 months she says she only wants to be friends. Why? is it just stress that's made this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I met a girl online. We talked on the site for over a month before she gave me her number Then after that, we texted and talked on the phone for 2 weeks before we went on a date. Sense then, we've gone out everyweekend for 2 months, sometimes tw...

Does he actually not like me and is he showing me that by pretty much ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for several months, we broke up for 6 months and I saw him again and we reconnected. It was what seemed a fresh start where we talked about how we hoped to have a future together. But he is in the military and got stationed on the...

What is the best way to support and deal with an emotionally damaged boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for two months. We met online and before I got into this relationship I knew he was damaged. All I know that one or more past girlfriends have cheated on him other than that I don't know a lot. He is very gua...

Do you think my guitar playing can play a role in attracting a woman who will love me, into my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Hello ladies and gentlemen I have a weird question. How much does guitar playing affect in attracting females? I am a guitarist and I can shred, strum, sing and play ANY song. I compose my own music and cover many rock songs. I have been singl...