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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What are they getting out of this? It seems they want drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - One of my housemates is going out with a guy and their relationship is rocky to say the least. The guy is a douche bag but he makes it his business to try and rise me when he comes over but he never succeeds. we get a great laugh out of the witt...

What do I do now? I lied and told my boyfriend that I wasn't a virgin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - So this is the problem, this guy I really liked we met on a night out and instantly hit it off, we were attracted to each other so much and i don't know how this came out in our conversation but we ended up talking about how many people we slept ...

Is it ok to get attached to my fiance's mother? I recently lost my mom and I really care about my fiance's mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hello. I've recently lost my mother who was the person I loved the most in the whole world. Since she died I've met my fiancé and grew really close to his family, especially his mom: I really love her and I feel her as both a friend and a mother. ...

I'm in love with my female bestfriend, who's straight... HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I'm confused about what to do about my feelings for my female bestfriend who is straight (atleast, I think she is). I'm straight too (atleast, I thought I was). My bestfriend and I are sooo close. We talk and/or text everyday. She gets upset...

Am I so psychologically messed up with myself that I won't ever let myself be happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I apologize ahead of time if this gets a little too long, but I need to give the whole story to get the right advice. So I'm a 21 yr old woman, and well I may not be the most beautiful girl in the world but getting a guys attention has ne...

How can I be successful with girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I have absolutely no experience with girls and i am trying to make sense of relationships. I want to know what does it mean to be successful with girls? and what does it take to be so?...

I want to marry my boyfriend but parents don't approve! And advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I want to marry with my boyfriend but the problem is that we both same caste but in our religion same caste cant marry with each other. We both love each other so much, please suggest what should we do...then our parents agree......

Why do men never EVER approach me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I feel embarassed just typing this, but well... I am nineteen year old, college student, I am extremely outgoing, I have a lot of friends and I am quite popular with them. I am tomboyish as in "loving sports, fights and cars" but you wouldn't...

I'm dating a guy my mom doesn't like and she doesn't know we're dating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Me nd my bf just started dating but we've been friends for a while now. The Thing is we work together and bc of that my mom docent approve of us being together and it's not just that he is 24 I'm 21 he didn't finish collage but told me ...

Guy a really like, but how can I hint that I want to spend time together outside school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hi, There's this guy that I talk to pretty often. I just met him in university and he's in his mid twenties and I'm 18. I've had a bit of a crush on him even though the only times we see each other are during labs because he's always my partne...

My boyfriend touches other girls and it makes me hurt, am I over re-acting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Today in class my boyfriend had to do some work with this girl amy and shes really pretty. They both really get on too well i feel like my boyfriend wants her, Anyway she bumped into him purposely so he would do something back to her like chase her, ...

I am not in a relationship and too ashamed to tell my father. I bought a doll as comfort

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I am 21 years old. I never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, none of that. It's not like I never wanted it. I've tried looking for a boyfriend since I was 13 to no avail. I heard many people telling me that you find one when you're not looking. ...

I think I need a break from boyfriend but he doesn't want this and I don't want to hurt him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 7 years, everything was perfect up until about a year ago, I have mentioned to him how I feel, when im around him I adore the ground he walks on and never want to leave him but when im home I ...

She's suddenly started ignoring my messages, what is wrong with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I have been speaking to this girl online. she's 17 and i'm 19 and we got on well. we met up as friends and i met 3 of her other friends and it was great we got to know more about each other and things were fine. we carried on talking over facebook ...

I want to propose to my girlfriend, but need to get her brother and mother's permission first! How do I do this, and what happens if her mother says no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Next weekend I am going to be asking the biggest question I have ever asked. My gf and I are in a gay relationship and have been for just over two years. She's the one. We have discussed marriage and have both said we'd like to get engaged soon. ...

First Date: Should it be the expensive restaurant, or something less formal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - Im taking my neighbor on a first date today. I knew she liked me and i liked her and decided to man up and ask her out. I asked her out bye inviting her to my bday party and asking her to play bp with me and she said shed rather kick my ass. so we ...

What are my chances with this girl from another country in an LDR and despite her family and her health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I am 43 and live in ,Greece I met A from another country online on Facebook in February 2012. We had common musical tastes and met in a group dedicated to such music. After a few initial messages on FaceBook, we became closer and closer. At so...

Even though he is planning to marry me, why do I feel like I am second best? Does the mother of his child have more claim to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a guy we are so good together. he has a child froma past relationship, he loves her so much, that i fear he might have to choose her/(and of courss the mother) over me.,when it gets to the point, wh...

I cant even find a decent guy for sex! Am I just unlucky, or is this the way its going to be now I'm getting older?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I m in my early 40swith a grown child. I own a small business for many years now and did well for myself. I m not rich by any means, but deffinitely independent. All I m missing is love in my life. I m in good shape, considered to be above aver...

Do I dump him over the attention he's giving his 'back-up women?" I no longer trust him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is around 10 years older than me and is in a rush to get married because he feels that he is of that age and his family and culture expects that of him. We're of the same culture and I definitely understand that about him but I just c...

I am so worried about losing him. Yet I feel like we've fallen out of love. Could the real problem be that we're both depressed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I need to get this off of my chest... I am not sure if I love my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for a little more than nine months. We started our relationship on very strange terms, and were strictly friends who smoked weed together (o...

Realistically, what do 20 something year old girls think of men with long hair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I've always been really self-conscious about my appearance, namely because I have pale-skin, red hair, freckles, and glasses, while the rest of my family all has dark Native-American hair, eyes, and skin. As such, I was always picked-on for being ...

Girls say I'm nice. So why am I still single? Am I missing something they are trying to tell me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - I have been talking to all the girls in my class who all happen to have significant others and they all call me the nicest guy they have ever met Some of the girls say that any girl would be lucky to have me and that I'm too good for just any girl...

I'm a lost girl and I'm losing myself in this sea of men I've been seeing. What advice can you give me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - Facts and dates these thing occurred: June 9th- ectopic pregnancy August 17th- He went back to his hometown September 1st- October 12th guy number 2 who went back to his baby mamma October 13th- I slept with g...

Am I doing too much for my Gf? I sometimes feel used by her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4212 days ago

15 October 2012 (F) - I sometimes feel like i'm being used by my Gf. Like i always give her money and i buy stuff for her. She always ask me do i want anything and i just say no. I don't really want her to buy me anything. I'd rather be the type of gf, thats always ...

My girlfriend is upset our porn movie has been posted online.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

15 October 2012 (M) - My girlfriend is a sweet, amazing girl but very shy 21 year old. She was in a few very bad relationships before we met and has some trust issues from being hurt in the past. I had always wanted to make a sex tape but never did because ...