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female
age
30-35,
*essibell
writes:Well my boyfriend and i have been dating almost 2 months.On october 13... I love him so much, but for some reason we dont get along. We fight over the stupidest stuff. When we make love...everything is great. We get along when its just me and him, but when its over the phone or when other people around, its like neither of us can take a joke. I'm very insecure and so is he. We are worried that each other will leave each other for another person. I try to prove to him i wont. I ignore guys. I deleted all my guy friends off facebook and everything i have.I dont even text guys anymore. But he still doesn't trust me. He says he trust me, but not the guys i talk to.i've tried to get him to hang out with me and my guyfriends, but he refuses to. All my guy friends have girlfriends, and i cant even talk to them anymore....i only have four friends now because all the girls i know are immature brats and I'm a country girl... I work for what i have. I told him im fully committed to him, but... What else can i do? I just...i have ran out of ideas
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (11 October 2012):
 There's nothing else you can do. You have deleted and turned your back on all your friends for a boyfriend of 2 months. I hope you don't lose them permanently as this relationship will never last. Fighting so often and having so many problems so soon is indicative of a short lived relationship. I know you love him and have good times sometimes. But the fact is the first few months of a relationship are the GOOD times. Perhaps you are too similar with your insecurities because you don't get along well together. Also, deleting all friends and alienating yourself are signs of getting into an abusive relationship. You are only happy when you are both alone. He wants it that way. Please be careful.
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