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Dating: Help and advice

B/f hasn't mentioned anything about Valentine's day, is this a sign?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - so its Valentines day... and neither me nor my bf has mentioned anything about it yet. kinda wondering if I should bring it up... cuz I know im going to be hurt if he doesnt do anything, doesnt matter to me if he buys somthing... just say somethi...

Juggling 2 guys, neither knows about the other. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I have know this guy for 13 years and we both know we are ment to be but I had to move away when I was young....he comes to visit me and we talk all the time we are best friends....the thing is I am dating someone and he wants to buy me a house and ...

Even though I've told the guy I like that it would never work, I can't stop thinking about him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Dear Agony aunts. I have some trouble with a guy I really like. He likes me, and I like him too, but we have some communication issues. This is really not much of a problem though. The problem is however, that I'm scared that a relationship between ...

I said I'd go out with him but I only like him as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hi today I was asked out by my ex from the begining of freshman year, but my friend) that i kinda liked. I said yes because i kinda liked him, my friends said I'd look cute with him, and feel bad if i didn't say yes(mostly because ...

Am I being a snob by feeling slightly offended for having to share a guy with someone like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - This guy and I are in the "talking" stage and he is also talking to another girl. This doesn't bother me as we both agreed in the beginning that we just want something casual and fun, since I will be leaving to go to graduate school out of the ...

Why doesn't anyone ever like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Okay so valentines this year has me thinking. I never had a boyfriend ever. The guys I always like never like me they always see me as their bestfriend. I am a smart girl, I'm chubby but I look good, I sing,have a nice personality,nice style I'm ...

Risk it all and ask him out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hello Cupids EVery day for the last 5 months, I have wanted to tell my best friend of 4 years that I like him more than an friend. However, he is so shy when it comes to dating and love. I have felt strongly towards him for a while, but I don’t kn...

He says we can't date because of distance. Do I keep him as a friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I started talking to this guy who I met on a dating site back in September. It was very casual and after a month of going back and forth with texts we finally met up for dinner. I almost did not go because we both kept canceling previous dates and I ...

Did I do/tell him the right thing or did I scare him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I was dating a guy I really liked, we both had the same family values, had similar upbringing, had a lot of things in common and always had so much fun when we were together. I haven't liked someone so much in such a long time. Only thing I did not ...

I think of him as cuddly, but I don't want to insult him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I hope I dont insult ppl in the process of asking if I'm being insulting XD To the overweight community: (ja im sure ive already insulted everyone) All my life ive been really tiny... high metabolism or w/e but ive been kinda skinny... And I w...

Does she fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - I like this woman at work who works in the coffee shop while I'm the stores janitor. One day I was collecting the rubbish we accidently touched fingers which made her smile, just before New Year's she asked what I was doing on on New Year's Eve then...

I rejected him because I was I wasn't sure what sort of relationship I wanted with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Dear agony aunts, it's valentine's day today and I gave a valentine to the guy that I rejected a few months back but really liked a lot(the thing is, I don't know what kind of way I like him!) . And he was astoundingly cold to me, as though I was ...

Should I tell him I miss the way we used to be? Or leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I'm kinda seeing this guy on and off for a year. We're not official thagether, but it feels like we are. Recently though we've started to drift apart. We've had a lot of fights this past year, and I think it has something to do with that. But a few ...

Love him or leave him? Or would FWB work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - What should I do about my new lover? I met him at Christmas time through my sisters boyfriend and although I wasn't sure at first, we ended up being lovers. As he lives in my home town (he has a four year old son who he sees as much as possible...

Kissing. A how-to-guide

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - hello little lemon drops of the earth! there is a possiblilty that SEVERAL of you have not kissed anyone before. (unless your a little bit weird and have made out with a potato :S) so im here to shed some light on your little minds with my ...

Should I leave my boyfriend for a guy who I still have feelings for but it never worked out in the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hello:) I'm having trouble with relationships. I was going out with this guy a few years ago, lets call him 'Mat' then I started hanging round with a new friendship group and pretty much fell in love with someone in the group. I didn't do anyth...

Is he more than just friends with his flatmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - So I am facing a major dilemma. I am a gay male, but that shouldn't really matter as that has nothing to do with it. I can use the opinion and advice of anyone. So around August, I met this wonderful man on a social internet site (not facebook.) We ...

I said yes to going out with him but it doesn't feel right! Have I made the right choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - My good friend asked me out today and I said yes, but it doesnt feel right. He's like my brother, and its just too awkward. Have I made the right choice? Im 13. I dont actually feel anything. Should I just see where it goes?...

do I really need to pretend to be incompetent to make a guy stick around?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I am a 26 year old single mother of two. I work a full time job, and am a full time mom. I live on my own with my kids, their dad lives over 1000 miles away. I pay all my own bills, etc... In other words, I'm completely independent. My kids dad and ...

Its been 6 months and I'm still not over my 1st boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - Hi :) In December of 2010, the boy I liked asked me out. He wasn't my first boyfriend but he was in a way. My first boyfriend was in 5th grade and we dated for 5 hours. My second boyfriend was also in 5th grade but we only dated for 2 days. And my 3...

My boyfriend wants me to put my life on hold for a while is that right of him to ask?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - A couple of weeks ago I got a call from a former navy recruiter, and he told me of a new opportunity that would let me enlist in the military, but it is only valid for the next two months. I was very happy about it since i have been wanting to do ...

The designated unattractive fat friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - I have a attractive female friend. She surrounds her self with less attractive female friends. My friend says that attractive girls with "fat ugly friends" have no personality!!!!! it is true, that she has little to no personality!! Is this a fluke ...

Should I go out with this guy even though everyone thinks he's weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I just moved to a new school and i like this guy and he likes me too. Everyone says hes really weird but i don't see it and everything they say is bad about him it doesn't bother me. I know your probably saying just to go out with him and see where ...

I messed around with a jock at a party 4 days ago, and haven't heard from him since. I have feeling for him, but am afraid he was just playing with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, ...

How can I help my boyfriend, who has gone through life suffering due to a botched operation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I really need any help from anyone who may know a bit about Norwegian or Scandanvian rights / law. My boyfriend is Norwegian, and when he was a baby he received a botched inhumane surgery (no anesthetics were used) that left him with bad scarrin...

She said yes! Now what should we do for the date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - Thank you to all the help I've received here on dearcupid! I posted this question on Sunday, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-suggest-our-st-valentines-day-outing.html#provide_answer The lady in question accepted! Now I need to know ...

I am 29, she is 18! But we each like each other very much. Should I continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - Hey Everyone.....! Please help! I’m a 29 year old man and I’m in love with an 18 years old girl! She is 11 years younger than me!!!!! It was she that liked me at first and always very nice with me. She used to say, "Everything to do for you is a ...

My mother is conservative and against ANYTHING before marriage. I'm 18, but I still have to deal with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - To make a long story short, recently I've come to find out a lot more about political parties, and what exactly my mom believes in, now that I'm older. We are almost completely opposite, she's ultra conservative, and I guess you could call me a ...

I'm usually shy, but with her I feel just fine. Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - Alright guys, so I'm a freshman at my school, and I was at a cross country meet, I'm not the fastest but oh well. Anyways, The fastest girl in my school saw the place I got and was being nice and this happened a couple of times. Then I starte...

Man is 13 years my senior and shows a bit impatience to meet again. Is this cause for doubt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I'm Irish moved to Germany 2 years ago , and i'm 29 . I met this guy in a pub a German over here in Germany. He is a lovely guy-- very, very nice guy . Have a small few issues. Met him two weeks ago. Then last weekend i met him for beer and i'm...