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Even though I've told the guy I like that it would never work, I can't stop thinking about him

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Question - (14 February 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2012)
A female Denmark age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Dear Agony aunts. I have some trouble with a guy I really like. He likes me, and I like him too, but we have some communication issues. This is really not much of a problem though. The problem is however, that I'm scared that a relationship between us wouldn't last. I just don't want our friendship to be harmed or even worse, ruined.

I had a small episode with another guy, but nothing too bad happened. We just kissed, but it felt so wrong. I stopped and told him that I liked someone else, and that I couldn't do this. I feel really bad about it.

Even though I've told the guy I like that it would never work, I can't stop thinking about him. What should i do, or what does this mean?

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A male reader, SonOfMan Christmas Island +, writes (15 February 2012):

SonOfMan agony auntIt sounds like you have unresolved issues which will probably be on your mind unless you address it.

You need to speak to the person you like and be honest about your feelings. This will clear things up and let him know what you are thinking.

You will then know where to take it after that. If you don't give it a try, you will never know but if you know for certain it won't work then just leave it and busy yourself with something else and take your mind off the matter.

It's in your hands and all it takes is some honest communication to move forward with your life.

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