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Archived questions from: 12 February, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I make him care?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 19 months and we've had our share of ups and downs. Recently, we have been in a spot where it's not really good nor bad. I'm crazy in love with him and he generally makes me really happy. But the other half ...

Why is my B/f trying to make me feel guilty when he is the one at fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - About 5 days ago,I hung up on my boyfriend due to his behavior.He was intoxicated, not nice with his comments etccc...He hurt my feelings by the way he was acting so I hung up on him. 2 days ago,I had cooled off and felt guilty to hang up on him so ...

Boyfriend is leaving for the Navy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both in our early 20's and in a very serious relationship. He just joined the Navy a couple of months ago and is leaving for boot camp in August. I know that he will be assigned to a ...

Should I contact my ex, who hurt me or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I'm curious if any men out there ever wished they could get their ex back after leaving them for someone else and then a yr. or so later realized you had made a huge mistake or the one you hooked up with ended up dumping you? Were you too much of ...

Do I suggest our St Valentines day outing first, or wait for her to text me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - So, I've been on two dates with a girl now, last week Sunday and Friday this week. The first was good, walk and coffee, last around 4 hours. Second we played snooker, then had dinner, Chinese, her favourite. I chose the second, she did the firs...

My girlfriend is being distant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - I need help on what to do, My girlfriend is being distance I know she's usually quite distance anyway but more recently she's been more distance, she's at college while I'm at home. I don't suspect she's cheating as she isn't the kind to do that. ...

His balding is becoming such an obsession lately...how do I get him to embrace it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I have been dating my guy for hitting 2 years now. I am 29, he is 35. His hair is thinning, just as it was when I first met him. It has become such an obsession with him over the last six months, and its driving me nuts. He has stopped going out ...

How can I stop my father controlling me when I'm 18 and an only child?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Hi. So simply as im going to put it... I'm 18. An only child still live at home Have a controlling father who yeah, you could say...im scared of... So, my father thinks he has the right to control me, given I still live at home... He...

Did my boyfriend ditch me, or am I completely overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Yesterday, I took lunch to my boyfriend of 6 months while he was at work. He mentioned catching a 7:30 movie, and that he would talk to me when he got off work. So, I assumed that we had a date, just like every Saturday night. Usually, we go out and ...

Is it too early to be discussing marriage and children?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we are 23 and have discussed moving in, but he says hes not ready yet and mayb in a year or 2. Also he says at the minute he doesnt want kids or marriage in the future. It is something i would probably ...

I absolutely adore this lady but she says she feels no sparks. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - i've met this woman 8 months ago.we're both separated and get on brilliant.she has 4 wonderful kids and i have 1.at first we were friends and still are but i have strong feelings for her and she knows that.she even told me 3 weeks ago that she was ...

How can someone so into sex go completely cold like the way my partner has?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Partner not interested in sex. At first he was all over me, told me I was beautiful, kissed me, hugged me wanted have sex often. I was always up for whatever he suggested. I'm not sure what happened but he stopped being interested and now its down ...

Boyfriend will believe rumors over what I say and it will cause a fight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend is getting out of jail this month and I've been right by his side the way thro it. Now there's rumors about me but the things their saying I never did. We broke up for 2 weeks then got back together. But while we were broken up me ...

Should I give him a present for Valentine's Day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - There's this guy called M whom I just met recently for the first time, introduced to me by a close female friend of mine called C. About a week later, I went out with C. C said that M told her that he likes me. Before she told me that I coul...

Are we moving too fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two weeks. The other day, he said I love you. Now, this is only one of my many questions, but was it too early to say those three little words? Also, is it too soon for a first kiss? I'm 13 years ...

Any tips to make sex go a little smoother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of six months recently tried to have sex..and failed. We didn't try for very long bit he just didn't fit.inside me. I don't know if it was just bad angles or am I to.tight?? Any ideas to make it go smoother?...

My gf cancelled our date last minute. Could this mean she doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - This may be a stupid question but it's been on my mind all day. I've been dating this girl now for a little less than 2 months. Due to our busy schedules we have only gone on 4 dates so far but we communicate when we have time in between. Toda...

My girlfriend is much more casual about sex than I am. Can we make this work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and we are not virgins. However, she is much more experienced (I was in a relationship for a very long time) and has a much more casual attitude about sex than I do. I am really wary about sleeping with a ...

My sister-in-law is a cougar and I think it's unwise

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - My sister-in-law is a 43 year old single mom to an autistic son. He is now 15 years old. Now that he is getting older she is getting back into the dating scene. She has been divorced for more than 10 years now. Good for her, I think. The p...

How can I pursue this relationship without going over the top and pushing the girl away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - I find myself becoming obsessed with certain women I date and I feel it always messes up anything that could be. I am in this situation right now again. I am 32 and a good looking guy. When I meet someone I am extremely attracted to I tend to ...

He won't show me any affection but always wants sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Hi everyone- Me and my boyfriend of four years on and off are back on I guess. Here's the problem he doesn't want to hold hands or kiss me in public or infront of his friends just bc its " akword" to him. He shows me no affection at all unless w...

I like my best friend's younger brother and he likes me too, but my friend knows nothing about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - hi. i am haveing a little trouble with this. i like my best friends little brother and he like me too. i am going on 20 and he is a year and a month younger then me. i met my best friend when we were 15 and her brother has liked me since then and i ...

Did he ask me out for a date on Valentines Day because he likes me? I'm anxious about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4465 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Today I went to lunch with this guy that I like, he asked me out on valentines day but I am very anxious about it. I've been on one date with him, well if you call it that since it was casual. But I'm not sure if i'm supposed to get him some...