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writes:My good friend asked me out today and I said yes, but it doesnt feel right. He's like my brother, and its just too awkward. Have I made the right choice? Im 13. I dont actually feel anything. Should I just see where it goes? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 why not just go as friends and let him know that you just want to be friends....
you're thirteen... do your parents think you are old enough to date?
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reader, AbigailBradbury  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 Don't just stay with him just because you don't want to hurt his feelings. It's more cruel to lead him on. The more time you spend as his girlfriend the more he'll grow to love you. If you don't feel anything now, you can't make yourself feel something. I'm not telling you how to live your life hun, if you really want things to work out and you really think you could feel something for him then give it a go. Just don't hurt him because you'll regret losing the friendship. do what's best for YOU.
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reader, EmilyTheStrange  +, writes (14 February 2012):
no no no no no, i made that mistake with a really good friend of mines, and we're still not over it. he had strong feelings for me, and i wasnt aware just how strong. i said yes, to see where it would go. but a few weeks into it, i decided it wasnt for us, and i told him. he told me that i had really hurt him, and that he didnt know if he could get over it.
a few months on, and we're still not back to normal, but im hoping we're making slow progress as i miss my best friend.
good luck, and i hope you make the right choice :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): If you don't feel anything, then end with him now. It will be far easier to go back to having a good friendship with him now instead of a few months down the line when he's really attached to you and is then hurt when your relationship ends.
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