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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2012 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How equal should things be? I give her oral, but she just gives me excuses for why not, when I seek same from her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm wondering whether I should expect oral sex for giving oral sex. Me and my girlfriend don't have sex often, but my sex drive is a lot more than hers, so she uses her hands to satisfy me. I've told her I really enjoy oral sex and she gave...

I'd jeopardize my actual relationship if I allowed this infatuation to take hold. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am almost 22 and I have a boyfriend and I know he loves me, he is so kind and sweet and caring and we have been going out for over a year or so. But about April last year, I met this man one day, and he was fascinating and charming and I have n...

I know I've done wrong! But how can I fix it? I still love my ex too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Okay well for a start im the Darth Vader, Joker or Lex Luther of this whole thing! I was with a girl for 2 and a half years , She was very pretty typical blond petite girl, i was clearly under the thumb! Doing everything for her! we had our brea...

How can I make him see that I've changed since then and that I am the right choice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - ModNote: The OP has implied that this question could have more detail added - the OP is welcome to add that details as follow ups to this question, herein, to assist others to answer this question. The reason for him not liking me was mostly m...

If my gf is pregnant, she says she does not want to keep the baby but is afraid of the guilt of an abortion. What can we do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - I've got a real dilemma here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for less than 2 months. About 3 weeks into our relationship we started having sex. We used protection each time. Anyway, her period was supposed to begin at one point during the...

The Cody Chronicles, Part 3: Should I reject Cody simply on the basis of the rumors about him (like him having sex with a goat)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Sorry if the questions about Cody are annoying but the people of DearCupid are my only resource for advice that I take pride in and trust. So I know that y'all know what's right. Well anyways, Cody has a horrible reputation. Every time I mention his ...

My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What ...

Is the girl this guy likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4453 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - HI I used like to this guy and I told him when I told him he never told me if he likes me or not. Then a month later he rings me up and tells me that he likes soem girl for a year and half, this girls feels the same but she not ready to move on. He ...

Guy is leaving abroad soon, but still wants to spend a lot of time with me before he goes. Is he leading me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles!... Me and my friends went out to a student night at a nightclub a couple of weeks ago. My friend introduced me to one of his friends at the club. My friend told me his friend had seen me a week before and was attr...

Complicated situation I got myself in! Two guys now - but which or how do I pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am 33yrs old. My boyfriend is 20yrs old. When we first met, he thought I was younger (I look 23) and I thought he was older. When I found out his age I told him he was too young. But he was convinced I was "The One" and he followed me all over the ...

How can I figure out if this guy likes me when we only see each at parties?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hi, so my story: I have a pretty big crush on a boy i met a few months ago. When I run into him on parties we always hug and he is very flirty, but we never really talk about serious things. I am getting very interested in him because of thi...

B/f is dating 2 of us at the same time. He says he's just "pretending" to date her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I'v been dating a guy almost a month now, recently, he told me that he was dating a different girl and he's doing that to please her he disclosed to me that im the one he loves even though he's pretending to be dating her. Should i believe him? I ...

My father doesn't like my boyfriend because he has kids and he thinks he's a bum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - Hiya! Hope you can help me. I am 31, nearly 32, I have been with a wonderful man for nearly 8 months and he just completes me. I don't have any children. However, here goes, my dad doesn't approve at all because he has kids..he won't le...

The Cody Chronicles, Part 2: Should I get involved with Cody, when I know he mainly wants to do sexual stuff with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - So this question is a follow-up of my previous question about this guy Cody. Well whenever me and my sister showed up at the dance, he was smokin' weed in his truck. I was so astonished that he would do somethin' like that in public, especially on a ...

Guy said I was too small for him so now he doesn't call anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I met this guy in facebook...he asked for my number...called me several times...and we had a date...after our first date he stopped calling me....when i asked he told that he felt im too small for him...he is 9yrs older than me....but i love him and ...

I told this guy twice that I was too busy to see him. Does it seem too needy if I ask him out myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - If a guy you like has asked you out twice already, but both times you have been busy so you couldn't go, would it be desperate or needy if the girl asked him out when she was free? Because this guy, I do like him and I have said we can go out ...

I don't understand how he could like me so much one minute, then go cold the next!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am very, very frustrated. I met a guy last year from uni, and we hit it off. It blew over before Christmas, but just recently we've started speaking again. We went on a kind of date last Thursday which was lovely, and he said he wanted to see me...

Engaged! Now what?

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19 February 2012 (M) - Pre Marital Disclosure What you don’t know, you must know By Frank Kermit, Relationships Valentines day has come and gone. Some relationships have started. Some relationships have ended, and some relationships have proceeded to the next le...

Why do I keep thinking about this guy who I've only met a couple times?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4456 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I don't understand whats happening this week. I met gorgeous funny guys who liked me and asked for my number and to take me out. And of course at the time it's nice and find the attention great! I've even gone on dates with them and they've been ...

My girlfriend's friends are boring

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Hi all I have a bit of a problem regarding the friends of my girlfriend. Our relationship is generally good, and she has a lot of friends. I'm a naturally friendly man, very chatty, and very interested in people. To be honest, I was hoping to ma...

I cant believe my B/f has been talking to this girl behind my back, even though he promised he would have nothing to do with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and at the start of our relationship, he was receiving texts from a girl he used to fancy before we got together (the same girl that actually delayed us getting together). Igot upset when I found ...

Should I send this email to a girl who stopped talking to me a month ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Long story short, me and this girl went from talking to each other every day to completely stopped talking the next day. One day its all fine then, she starts ignoring my messages... Please dont judge me. Also I havent sent this email. I have wri...

He won't emotionally divorce his ex-wife...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I've searched for answers to my question and haven't really found it so here it is... I've been dating someone for 2 years, we were both ending marriages and in a way, left for eachother...BAD I KNOW BUT we didn't meet each other then leave, w...

I'm insecure about my penis size and terrified of being called "small". Is it okay to want a woman who doesn't have a past so that she don't compare my size to others?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

19 February 2012 (M) - Im a 21 year old virgin guy and lately ive been trying to figure out what I want in a girlfriend before I know for sure that im ready to have sex. While trying to figured things out for myself ive realized something. I have female friends that joke ...

I'm 16, pregnant, and I don't know if I should be with the father of the baby

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - im 16 and pregnant, yes i know your thinking im crazy. But, what im here for is to ask for advice.So im living with my boyfriend and this following month we have two years of relationship. Alright, so during does two years we've broken up plenty of ...