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Archived questions from: 17 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Both of us like each other...but she has a boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Hi all again, I've got a problem this time with a girl I really like. I met her about a month ago and we really like eachother. Even though I knew she had a boyfriend, I told her how I felt about her. She told me that she felt the same way about ...

Is this girl flirting with me, or just being nice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I have a crush on a girl I work with. She has done a few things that make me think she might feel the same. I should highlight that she is very nice and friendly with everyone so I could be wrong. Anyway... She laughs at all my bad jokes, and r...

Does she even have an ounce of love for me? Or am I setting myself to be completely destroyed later on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of almost a year dumped me two days after my birthday (mid-august) completely out of the blue. That night, she texted me saying "I think I don't like you anymore" and our relationship to me ended at that moment. Mind you, not to make ...

I've been cheated on twice and now both my ex boyfriends want me back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - i recently broke up with my long-time boyfriend of 20yrs because of the fact he was cheating on me. I then met another guy and we have been dating for 1yr now. I broke up with him within the last 2wks because i felt that there was someone else. It ...

How long is too long a wait to say hello?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I saw a girl at work who is amazingly beautiful. We saw each other in fact and shared a long intense stare before looking away. I desperately want to talk to her. She makes me feel nervous when we are in the same room together, but that feeling...

Love over social anxiety?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I fell in love with a girl at my university roughly two years ago. The only problem is I suffer from social anxiety disorder, so I never was able to show her my true personality. For those who doubt the significance of mental illness, I'm not ...

Guys are stupid, I am the king...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I just want to know how bad this is. I was drunk and sexting a girl on facebook, I was not aloud to talk to her. There were rumors that me and this girl hooked up months before I went on Facebook, but we never did. now she thinks those rumors are ...

Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world.

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17 September 2011 (M) - Love. There’s no feeling like it in the world. When you’re into a girl, everything in your life seems different. Colors seem more vivid. Everything you do has a different purpose. Life seems more worth living. It’s not surprising that S...

How do I get a good girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Dear cupid please advice me on how to get a good girlfriend. I really need one. even if i found one how should i treat her please advice me.The once i had before do not understand my kind of person they always want things to go their own way. ...

How can I make my boyfriend of over two years commit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2years but he doesn't seem like he wants to commit and i don't think i can wait any longer. We've spoke about getting engaged but he doesn't seem interested and the same with a baby, theres always ...

She seems amazing, but in three months were're both leaving for uni

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Hi all, I recently started contacting this girl from school. At first it was purely out of boredom and I was just looking for someone to hang out with. So we met up and even though it was for a short time, I found we had so much in common. Not i...

How honest to be when breaking up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for over a month now, I met him on the rebound from a disastrous 6 month relationship and wasn't sure about getting involved in the first place but I kind of got carried away as we were having so much fun together. We get ...

I love him but his family is completely opposed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I am from india. My boyfriend says 'We' cant be together and there is no future for us as his family will never agree. His mother is threatening Suicide if either of her boys marry outside their community. He loves me but cannot decide about us...

How do I explain to Jenny that I still like her, but there's another girl that I wanna get to know some more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - I like a few different girls. Two of them I actually have a chance with. The one girl, "Jenny" and I have been talking for a while. We've gone on dates and hooking up here and there (no sex). My roommates, Jenny and her friends all went to the ...

Why do my friends do this to guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - Why do my friends do this? i think is so wrong what they do.? Most of my friends go out dinner, shopping with guys they don't even like. They go cos they like the attention and free stuff. and talks about the guy really badly. When I ...

Do I have a chance or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - Hey, it’s me back again (I posted http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-over-a-girl-but-cant-get-her.html) As a summary of that, I was told she liked me at the beginning of summer, but after summer I was told by a mutual friend I’d probably not hav...

Will it be difficult for me to get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

17 September 2011 (?) - hi im a 15 Teen boy i would like to have a boyfriend but i am a very introvent boy for instants i dont talk much with people and i have mostly girls as friends a few boys as friends and my vocal cords are paralised i talk like a girl so i would like ...

What do you make of the entire messy situation between my ex and this other woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I recently ended a relationship of almost two decades. My ex was an extreme binge drinker throughout. I am still getting over it all. One thing that I am having difficulty with is: a couple of years back I was away with work on the other si...

I feel jealous that he's going to drive a girl to another state

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I'm feeling a bit insecure. Although, I know my bf loves me dearly but when he told me that a girl he knows is offering him money to drive her to another state and back. Thus meaning he'll be out all day. I get a strange feeling of jealously. Am I ...

How am I supposed to know what my sexual orientation is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I am 30 years old and I have never dated. I am not pretty, but I have had my chances to sleep with guys. The thing is that I can't have sex with guys, I can't even kiss them. I kissed a guy and I felt nothing. I have fallen in love with guys before, ...

Nice guy that no one will give a chance to !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (M) - What it mean for a guy who has never found love, be in a relationship and never had sex with a woman but yet he is straight, good and caring, fine looking and he wishes to have that someone in his life who will connect with him and his feelings but ...

I want to move on from my 3 year relationship with dead beat boyfriend but not sure my heart can take the hurt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I realize this is a little long. Please bear with me... I'm a recent graduate of the RN program (Class of 2011!) and I've been dating my boyfriend for three irritatingly long years. He's two years younger than me making him 19. I realize that the ...

It seems like everything died because we had sex!

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...

Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married but I feel like I'm going to be single forever..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm going to be single forever. I just turned 25 and I feel so alone. Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married. It's lonely when my friends are talking about wedding dresses and center pieces and I have no one. I find ...

How should I respond when a guy I'm dating says, "I love you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - what should I respond when a guy I am dating said "I love you" what should I say if a guy I am dating said "I love you"? if I want to find out his "I love you" is not just for a casual relationship but for a committed (to Marriage, I mean) relation...

Am I wasting my time? Is he out of my league?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - I've had this thing for this guy for a little less than a year. We hooked up in January (not all the way, however) and I left for college. We continued talking but I didnt fully believe he could like me (he was 2 years above me in high school and ...

A girl told me a rumour about my boyfriend and now I'm lost, hurt and confused, can someone please help me out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

17 September 2011 (F) - A girl told me he told her he liked her two days into our relationship. I got super angry at him and accused him of cheating even though he kept denying it repeating "I have NO idea what you'e talking about!!" But she's a bit of a gossip so I don't ...