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writes:What it mean for a guy who has never found love, be in a relationship and never had sex with a woman but yet he is straight, good and caring, fine looking and he wishes to have that someone in his life who will connect with him and his feelings but there is no 1 who can give him the chance? Reply to this Question
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (18 September 2011):
In that case then you could get to know them more before you rush with your intentions, let them get comfortable with you first, build up friendships. Love that comes after friendship is much stronger anyway.You claim you are such a nice guy; then they should be willing to befriend you. At your age dating is part of the norm, but your life shouldnt just be centred on it. Pursue other interests as well, you'll be surprised who comes your way while you're doing other things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLook its not like I don't approach girls, I do and I approach the girls that I really like not just anyone that I see, and yes most of times I get rejected and sometimes it gets to nowhere because the they don't really what I want, they just give excuses, so which is why Ive decided that I don't want to beg for a girl to take me in when she is wasting my time, but you see the thing is nothing is happening when I do nothing and you know with girls they expect you as a guy to come to them and asked them out or just have a conversation but it turns out negatively for me.. its not like I'm ugly or have bad smell or anything... things just doesn't work out but the funny thing is when THEY want something they would go all out to get it, even when its not necessary to do all that because I know where I stand with them but they just do it because they know what I want, which is something I will not probaly never get from them
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reader, Madalo 1 +, writes (17 September 2011):
Do you mean you've made advances at girls and they've all rejected you, or you havent even tried and you expect someone to find you while you wait?
Anyway, they say everyone has someone for them, so you will indeed find someone who will appreciate all the qualities you've mentioned.
You're still young anyway, now is not the time to despair. Have fun with your friends, work hard at whatever you're pursuing and seriously, love comes naturally, you dont force it.
Just a small tip though, approach the girl you like, dont be afraid. Be nice, get to know her more, eventually ask her to a game or movie, whatever and let it build up. You might be surprised she likes you too, but you'll never know until you take a step and stop the pity party.
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