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41-50,
*arrybaggs
writes:I have a crush on a girl I work with. She has done a few things that make me think she might feel the same. I should highlight that she is very nice and friendly with everyone so I could be wrong. Anyway...She laughs at all my bad jokes, and remembers them weeks later long after I've forgotten them. We always have fun and laugh around one another. She draws me silly pictures, and sometimes even draws on my arms. She also does things like shows me cuts on her arms or asks me to feel them. She kind of touches my shoulder or arm sometimes when we talk. She also asks how I am, and seems to remember things about me I'd even forgotten I'd told her.Is she flirting, or just being nice? She's really outgoing, friendly and nice whilst I'm kinda quiet and lacking in confidence after numerous bad relationships.Thanks.
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reader, GoodDog +, writes (18 September 2011):
 I agree with the others here - ask her out and you'll know for sure!
No harm in trying and you might regret it later if you don't.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): ask her out. then you'll know if she likes you or not.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 From what you've described, I'm actually leaning more towards a friendly vibe. Flirting would be a bit different. If you really like her, try asking for her number, invite her out to lunch, and show your interest in her. Give her compliments, find out if she's in a relationship or single, etc.
Show that you're interested in getting to know her beyond on a friendship level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2011): She sounds like a really nice girl, good job! Without actually meeting her it is probably hard to say whether or not she is flirting or not (some people might claim they can, but I've met some people, they're all single) but this is actually unimportant. In my honest opinion you should ask her out, or at least express that are interested in being more than just co-workers or friends. Tell her how you feel about her and if she feels the same then she'll tell how she feels about you, it doesn't matter whether she is being flirty or not.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (18 September 2011):
 Hi,Yeah, I think she has a crush on you. I do the same things she does to you without even knowing. I guess that's just the way she's, like me. I am also friendly, because I do care about people, and want them to like me. Also, I am shy around guys I like, don't know exactly how to behave. Seems like that's her case too. It's cute :)Just act the same around her, see how things go, and when you have a chance, ask her out for drinks after work. I went out with a co-worker of my, and we were together for 10 years. Best years of my life. It's fun... Reading your post remind me of my ex, how we started, the little things we did at work, I remember we went out after work for drinks, we had so much fun, talking about work, co- workers, etc. Nothing romantic, physical.. We just had a great time. Few days later, he asked me for formal dinner, took me to a very expensive, romantic place. That's when he first gave me a hug. Anyways, don't worry to much about being wrong, at was the same age when it happened. Just enjoy getting to know her. Like I said, I think she has a little crush on you too. Ask her for drinks after work, just casual, and see how it goes from there. Good luck!
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