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Archived questions from: 20 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why is she with a complete asshole?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - My best friend of 2 years has liked the same guy for just over 2 years now. I've watched her constantly get hurt by him and have seen her cry because of him. Just recently, she had been in a relationship with a GOOD guy and I honestly thought he ...

Is it possible to find a nice guy whom I also find attractive or what am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am feeling alone and confused about what kind of guy to go for.........I have been divorced now for 5 years from a guy I was with for 13 years and have found the dating world a confusing disaster...... My ex didnt want or wasn't ready to have ...

He says he doesn't want to ruin the friendship but then why are we fooling around sometimes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Im going to try to keep this brief but I have been friends with this guy for nearly 3 years and he has become my best guy friend. Over the last few months things have been moving to a more serious level and things have moved passed friendship. We ...

I always make fun of girlfriend's class and stuffs...How should I get rid of this habit?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I always make fun of my girlfriend’s class and her middle class dressing and stuffs . Actually she is from middle class and I am from extremely rich family and we are in a relationship for the last four years and will make it off...

Is she playing hard to get? Or did she pull a 180 and lose interest? Or is it that I'm feeling a bit impatient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - So here's the thing I'm wondering: Backstory: I met this one girl many years ago through mutual friends but thought nothing of it. 2 years ago, we see each other again and started talking. We went on one date. We planned many things but then she...

Why am I still pining for my army lover though he treats me like dirt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Ive been involved with a guy for 9 months and Im going out of my mind with frustration. To say I fell for him hook, line and sinker would be an understatement.I was totally and utterly in love with him. However, we couldnt properly be together ...

How good is good enough?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 31. We have been together for about 3 and a half years in total, although the beginning was very on and ,and we live together. Recently I have been feeling very unsure about the relationship. I have discussed...

Is he really into this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Going on 11 months- he doesn't show much emotion about us but he's very sweet, generous and affectionate - his love language us physical where mine is verbal. Talk about the future is never brought up by him. The only emotion I see about relati...

Broke off our engagement ...did I do the right thing?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Just found out that my bf of four years didn't marry his ex gf because her divorce hadn't come through. He claims this is not the case and it was because they weren't the right match but turns out she was separated from her ex but still married to ...

He says he is attracted to me, but wants nothing else from me! Help me understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - hi i have this friend and we get on really well,we do have arguments alot because he says he likes me and that he's attracted to me but doesnt want nothing else with me. i dont understand him. please help ...

Why is my lesbian partner lying to me when she goes to meet a "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Why is my lesbain partner lying to me when she goes to meet a friend? This friend happens to be an ex of hers, but holy batman, she tells her everything that goes on in her life and when I ask her what she did on her day off, she says "nothing" ...

I have some committment issues...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - hey what should i do? this guy likes me or that's what i thought. we used to chat every night on facebook and he used to always say he liked me more than a friend, back then i didn't have feelings for him but now i think i do. and i don't he has ...

High school drama!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - So I am almost nineteen years old and my bf just turned seventeen in aug. I have already graduated highschool and have a fulltime job. My boyfriend on the other hand has just started a new school and is in eleventh grade, he failed awhile back. We ...

I need to tell my best friend that I'm dating her ex who dumped her,but I'm scared of the outcome!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hi guys, There's a guy I know and I like her very much and he likes me too. We've gone out for a date four times. Here's the deal: he's my best friend's ex that dumped my friend about 5 months ago. Now before things got further between me and h...

Typical communication habits of guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Firstly, this is in a 1 year old relationship. My boyfriend said if there's something I need within our relationship that all I need to do is ask. But I feel awkward asking for affection and attention. Secondly, I don't text incessantly but ...

I think he should have told me at the beginning that he had bad credit and had been blacklisted!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I started dating a man I met via internet 2 years ago. All seemed fine to start with. He told me once he has no credit cards because he doesn’t want any. Fair enough. He rented his flat, didn’t own property or have a mortgage. He bought a new ...

I'm 24 and he's 20...can this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I recently met a guy at the bar that I started dating. The thing is he's 20 and I'm 24... He says it doesn't bother him at all, is this normal? We get along great but it makes me wonder what his motives are... Any insight from you guys out there? ...

How do you keep friendships? How do you make yourself happy? How do you stay happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - The last four years of my life were so valuable to me because I was blessed with some very valuable friendships. In college the girlfriends I made were understanding, loyal and wild. I loved them. Any given time other than class and work might find ...

Do NOT let your partner walk all over you!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - Well, tonight (Sept. 19th, 2011), I broke up with my gf. The one who would say something and I'd follow without question. It was good, because she needs someone better than me and I need someone better than her. Advice to men and women: Yes, ...

Is there anything I should be concerned about when a guy is as straight forward as him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Im 18, hes 23. Ive known him for about 9 months now, he was interested in me from the beginning but to be really honest, I wasn't too bothered with taking it further with him but over these 9 months i've gotten to know what he's like and we met ...

I love him, but it's getting complicated...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, I am in a big dilema and need your help guys. I am in a relationship with a guy from last 3 years. Things were fine until his family came into the picture. I have been introduced to his family and at first, they liked me. Now things ...

On/Off/On/Off - What is her problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (M) - i was with my girlfriend for two years, lived together for one. i loved her so much. well she started cheating on me and left me for another guy a few months back, and it crushed me. i eventually moved on and started seeing another girl. well ...

Sould I inititiate a 'friends with benefits' situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Hi all, So I have this guy friend that I have known for three years. We met in school, get along really well. We often would hang out in groups for the first year we knew each other. After that I started dating a person and we kinda grew apart. H...

Had my teeth fixed and I'm worried my boyfriend will hate it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I've always had a fairly big gap in my front teeth and my boyfriend said he likes it, it's cute, etc... But I've wanted to get it fixed since I was little, so I finally did. It's really, really, really different looking. My whole face looks totally ...

He forgot my birthday and I am going to forget his. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - I've been this guy for about 4yrs. The past year has been nonstop fighting between us because he's constantly screwing up but for some reason, I always stay. I'm not even sure if I love him anymore, and most of the time, I absolutely can't stand him ...