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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What Women Want Most From A Guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...

Should I or should I not date if I'm not over a guy I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I am in a bit of a pickle and I don't know what I should do. See, I am in love with a man who doesn't feel the same way for me. I know, I know, and I'm trying to move on from that. The problem is that I genuinely do love the guy and ...

I can't understand why my gf feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I find it strange that my six months gf tells me she feels uncomfortable holding hands with me in public( I mean places like in a park or even on the street when we are walking)although she has no problem doing the same (holding hands indoors).At ...

Why would my ex ask me to the movies after all this time apart if he was clear he does not want to get back together again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Its my first time writing on here so here goes... im in a really weird situation and need some advice I was with my ex for 4 years in which i found out that he had cheated on me in the first 6 months of our relationship with ...

I think my boyfriend is falling out of love with me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Im feeling rather worried :( Im afraid my boyfriend may be having second thoughts about me, but doesnt want to admit it or hurt me. He was the one who came to me and made the effort to ask me out, he was so sweet at first, he always used to put ...

I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but I am too weak to resist temptation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Please help, i am confused. I love my boyfriend, we have been through the most tough times ever, and he has still stuck by me through everything. But, during last year at uni, i slipped into the trap of sleeping with a guy there, on numerous ...

How do I make my new boyfriend more comfortable with the physical closeness I want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month and I'm really attracted to him, we have tons in common and he's really easy to be around. The only problem is that he's not very 'hands on,' the most i've got out of him has been a short kiss before I had ...

We are not official - can we date other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Heya I have a quick question I,ve been dating a young man for nearly two months now. We're not officially girlfriend and boyfriend. He hasn't been with another girl since we met but since we're just dating is it ok for him to be with other girls...

When should I tell my ex fiance, who I'm now having an FWB with, that I'm dating other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have recently split with my finance of 5 years he moved out but we are still seeing each other. When we talked about the dynamics of our relationship he said he wanted to be friends and still have sex with me. He comes over almost everyday, brings ...

These past few days he's been different. mean to me. How does anyone cope when a boy friend gets like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am pretty upset now and don't know how anyone deals/copes with it. Anyways my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years now. We had our ups and downs, never broke up EVER. If we did it lasted like 2 days. These pas...

She will not cook, will not clean. I do it all, so I ask my self the same question every night, "is it worth all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - I dont honestly have the slightest clue on how to piece all of this together but here we go.. Just a little bit of information about my self before we start, i seem to think way too much into things, but i never actually express the way i feel v...

I'm newly single. Should I wait in case my ex and I can get back together? Or go with this new girl now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in love with this girl for five years, and now she has left me saying she can no longer take the fights we generally have. And so i let her go thinking she might really be facing real trouble. And i wasn't even thinking of anyt...

Don't want to do anything stupid. Should I tell my "friend" that I like his girlfriend, but I'm not going to act on my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - so im in love with my "friend's" girlfriend and have been since february. I just want to be with her so much and everytime i speak or talk to her i just want to kiss her. we are quite good friends and talk very often. we text and facebook. i told...

Am I expecting too much from him? five years into our relationship and still he remains at the beck and call of his ex and others.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for over 5 years. Lots of difficulties have came from his ex wife, daughter, his mother and his mother's friend. I have struggled to understand why. I can see clearly now that these 4 women have had ...

He has no trust in me. He says it's because he is scared of losing me. But is this the best I can expect? It makes me sad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello Cupid, I am 20 years and i have been dating the love of my life for over 4 years. He is my age and we have been going to school together. However, i feel confused of late. He is a very nice guy the kind of guy who will never cheat on you...

Ladies: Why would someone not want a boyfriend? Doesn't every girl want to be loved by someone and have a guy that they can call there own?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - This is a question to the females of DC.... Now, a while back I was very interested in a girl, we had been friends for a little while and I told her that I wanted to be more than that - however, she told me that she didn't want a bf, so I was pre...

Will this couple make it? Interested in your opinion, in view of their myriad of differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - I'm asking this question purely out of curiosity. What are the chances of a couple (one of them being a relative of mine) making their relationship work the second time around if she ended the relationship the first time because her bf tried to ...

My mom is having an affair with her married boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi readers, I'm typing this, hoping to seek great advice from anybody/everybody. I am 19yrs. old, living with my little brother and mother. My parents are separated. My father does not live with us, although he does live fairly close to us. M...

But what can I do to make this consuming jealous feeling go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been in a long distance relationship for almost three years on and off. i feel like i constantly have these insecurities that eat me up inside. i try not to show them because i don't want to push him away. but he has this...

He says I'm immature and selfish. Am I being unreasonable by being upset that his family exclude me from family events but invite his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been involved with my boyfriend for 13 years now and we have one child. He has been divorced for the past 14 years. The problem is his ex wife. My boyfriend has refused to marry me in the past citing his family doesn't like me. Aft...

Why do certain men have a girlfriend if they're just going to cheat?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (?) - Why do certain men have a girlfriend if they're just going to cheat? What's the point in being in a relationship in the first place? I mean the men who have a girlfriend but cheat on her any chance they get. Do you think they do it just because they ...

How can I stop talking to my guy friends? My boyfriend gets really mad.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - How can I stop talking to my guy friends? I'm still in high school and my boyfriends in his first year of college. He doesn't talk to girls at all in college because he says he loves me too much to talk to them but I talk to two guy friends and he ...

I hate kissing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - So, I know this may sound weird and it is but I really don't like kissing. Like, I hate it. I don't even know if I can get over it? Anyone have this problem? Btw, I have a boyfriend now and this problem has been since my first boyfriend like 5 years ...

I'm bothered by my fiance's past

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4353 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hello I need some help... I been with my fiancee for awhile now and we are due to be getting married here very soon. I been hurt a lot by many people... He's a wonderful guy and he's very open and honest with me about everything.... When we talk ...

After 8 months, he says he feels he loves me more as a special friend than a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - So i've been going out with my bf for 8 months, and recently he told me that he didn't feel like that he loves me as a gf anymore.. and he said like, right now he still loves me but he feels like i'm more of a really special friend than a gf.. B...